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Anyone know about spousal rights?
June 5, 2006
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I am finally ready to accept the fact that my marriage is over,and that I can never trust my husband again.Now I am curious to see if I can throw him out of our house and continue living here without him trying to force me to have to rely on my parents.He has plenty of other places to go,he just doesn't want to,but he can't stay here if we want to get on with our lives.HELP!!

June 5, 2006
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Do you own the house together? Are both of your names on the mortgage? I think it might depend on what state you are in, Google it?

June 5, 2006
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We are only renting a townhouse,and have no lease agreement with the rental company,we are on a month to month basis.I don't want to have to have him asked to leave by the cops,but if I have to,I will.We have argued and seperated before,and because my mother was present and willing to wisk me out of there,the police said I had to go with my mom because at that residence,he was the primary leasee.Now that situation does not exist.

June 5, 2006
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I shared a lease, and he had to agree to leave before they would remove his name from the lease.

and unless there is documented situation with law enforcement, you can't get a restraining order against him.

you COULD ask the landlord to ask him to leave - if you have an informal lease agreement, the landlord may be willing to go to bat for you - IF you want to "air your laundry" with him/her.

my landlord felt bad for me - but legally couldn't help me - thankfully he left on his own.

June 5, 2006
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Take a look at your finances without him. Filing for divorce is better legally. Be objective and logical.

June 5, 2006
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Hey, good decision P.O'd. That guy is not good for you.

I strongly suggest that you do not tell your husband until you have spoken to a lawyer, for starters.

June 5, 2006
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I read in all the do it yourself divorce manuals that it's BEST if you remain in the family home until the court rules otherwise.

this makes you able to know all the financial details and have the judges decide who should get what, instead of having him bully you into giving up everything and agreeing to stuff that isn't in your best interest.

June 5, 2006
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I agree with WD on this one. The more you say the worse it will be for you. Ask questions here, I might be able to help a little bit.

June 5, 2006
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Don't know what state you're in but many attorneys will provide a phone consultation, especially for 'general' questions to at least get you started in the right direction. Don't make any moves until you have a basic idea as to what your rights are.

Good luck.

June 8, 2006
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Thanks everyone for your advice.I am sitting tight and have not left this townhouse yet,for the fact that he will not let him bully me out of my house.I clean it,care for it,and he merely pays for it and sleeps here.Once I have a new job(that once again he will not bully me out of),I will be paying for it,and I can get on with my life.He is up to his old crap again,and as upset as I am about it,I know I am grieving the man I wanted him to be,not who he really is.In a sick kind of way,I'm wishing he would give me the motivation by really going out and meeting someone to cheat,so I can throw him out on his ass,but he hasn't done that yet,just baits the trap,and waits to see how long it takes me to figure it out.I am tired of playing his games,and will be the one with the resolve this time.

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