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Annoyed by confusing dating behavior
March 18, 2009
12:25 am
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I broke up with my boyfriend over a month ago. I've stopped sleeping with him, and have decided that I would like to go out on some dates. Casually, getting out, and no sex. I have decided that it would be positive for me.

So I joined this dating site (It is a little strange and I don't really like it.) But anyway, I joined because I figured I would go out on a few dates and enjoy myself.

Instead I am annoyed.

Men "wink" at me. I can't respond unless I pay. Which I won't do, because I don't really like the site. So I do what some people do and put contact info on my profile. Then men email me and are vague and want to exchange many stupid small talk emails without asking me on a date. I tried writing it on my profile, I said, I am interested in meeting in person and not just online. But to no avail. This BS continues.

I do not want to talk to someone on a webcam. I want to go out! Is that such a big deal?

One of these men actually said to me (and mind you, he never had to contact me whatsoever, his choice) when I said I was free on the weekends. He said "I never what I'm doing on the weekend till Thursday, but I'll let you know what my plans are." !!!!!! WTF is that? I removed him.

What do y'all think?

March 18, 2009
12:58 am
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I think your previous relationships were very unhealthy and that it's too soon to be trying to meet someone else. Seems that learning healthy interaction by working on yourself in therapy is the better course of action at this time.



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