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an update from netsirk
July 22, 2008
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I have been really quiet the last few weeks and I thought it was time to give those who care an update.

Things at home are not great. My husband and I have had a lot of fights over our money. He just doesn't get it. I am trying to pay the bills, and keep food on the table all while worry about our mortgage and house. My husband gets mad when I say he can't take out money of our account when he won't tell me what for. He wanted 100 bucks for who knows what and then he got mad at me when I said we were 200 short for our mortgage. He said that was my problam I didn't budget things right and he shouldn't suffer because of my mistake. He then said that I had to figure out how to get 200 bucks and maybe I needed to ask friends. I did and one friend was kind enough to loan it to me but now she isn't talking to me. Things got weird between us and I am so hurt by my husband for doing that to me.

Then my daughter's behavior is not that good. She is on a medication to help her control her inpulses that she honestly can not control because of her brain tumor and brain injury. I have been in tears over how to handle her and not get mad at her. I have also had to deal with the school to get them on board and make an educational plan that will help my daughter and not just keep letting her slip through the cracks.

So that is about it. I am leaving to go to my parents at the end of the week. Going there is not going to be easy but I need a break from my husband so I will have to deal with my mom. It is also the anniversary of my brother's death this week and I can not handle everything right now.

July 22, 2008
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(((Netsirk)))

Thinking of you and sending you all of the positive energy that I can at this time. Please let us know how things are going.

I am sorry for the pain that you are going through. I understand it all too well. We are here to listen. Post as you can. There are many people here that care.

Sweet Peas

July 22, 2008
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Glad to hear from you Nesirk. I am sorry that things are not going very well for you right now. Big hugs to you and I will keep you in my positive thoughts that you will have a good weekend. I know dealing with family is hard, but I wish you peace.

Hang in there...

July 22, 2008
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((((((Netsirk)))))))... I am sooooo sorry to hear that you are going through all of this right now. I am sending you positive energy, warm thoughts, and lots of hugs for you and your daughter.

July 22, 2008
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I had to sign out and back in to make sure I was on the libs side, hahahaha I am having a day!

I will pray for you and your daughter. Just know that you can let it all go and surrender everything up to God. He will always provide!!!

I hope that you can have some peace during all this turbulance. I am sooo sorry again. Please give your little girl hugs and just know that it will get better! I pray for her health.

Please keep an update my friend.

*HUGS* Giggles

July 22, 2008
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((((((((((NETSIRK)))))))))) Safe love and hugs to ya.....

July 28, 2008
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(((((Netsirk)))) Just checking in with you. How are you and how's that daughter of yours???

July 30, 2008
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((((((((((NETSIRK))))))))))

August 1, 2008
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((((((((((NETSIRK))))))))))

August 2, 2008
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(((((Netsirk)))) & (((((friendma))))
How are you two doing?
I really hope you are both doing well.
Friendma, how are you feeling these days? I hope that you are feeling better and that you do not need anymore surgeries! I will continue to pray for you!

Netsirk, how is your daughter doing? I will continue to keep you and her in my prayers. 🙂

Please keep on posting !!

August 2, 2008
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((((((((((NETSIRK)))))))))) Safe love and hugs to ya my friend......

August 2, 2008
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Ok, I signed in tonight thinking no one even noticed I was gone for a while but I was surprised to see that I was thought about. I went away for a week with my kids. I needed to get away and just be alone with them and away from the world. I went to my parents and used their house, beach, pool, car, food and stayed off the computer, didn't watch tv and totally just spent time with my daughter and son. On Tuesday my daughter has to have another MRI to check on her brain tumor and make sure it is stable and not changing. I always get a bit freaked out about these MRI's and what may be going on. I try not to worry but this is my daughter and so not worring is impossible. I am leaving on Monday and staying overnight in the local (there) Ronald McDonald House. Otherwise I would have to leave my house Tuesday morning at 3am! That is not happening so anyway it will be a long start to the week!

Thanks so much for thinking of me. I am ok, just needed some real R and R!

August 3, 2008
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((((netsirk)))) I will pray for you and your daughter!!! I hope that all is well and that there is no significant changes in the tumor! I am so glad you got to get away and just enjoy your children, and that they got to enjoy you :o)

I need to do that w/ my little girl. This week has been so hectic with the move, that I really have spent any quality time with her. I will be doing that this week.

Of course you were thought of :o)
Welcome back !!!

August 4, 2008
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((((((((((NETSIRK&DAUGHTER))))))))))

Sure have missed ya but I'm so glad ya'll were able to get away and spend time together. I'm sendin ya lots of safe love and hugs.........Has anyone told ya that you are special today? Well, my friend you are so very special to me.............

August 5, 2008
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(((((Friendma)))))) ((((Giggles))))

Thanks guys! Today was a very long day but I am very happy to say that my daughter's brain tumor is still stable and so for another year we are ok.

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(((((((((((NETSIRK)))))))))))

I'm so glad to hear that! I can't imagine what it would be like for you and your daughter to go thru all that you do with her tumor. Ya'll are in my thoughts and prayers. I am sendin you and Lil Netsirk lots of safe love and hugs.......

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((((((((((NETSIRK))))))))))

August 8, 2008
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((((Netsirk)))) That's such wonderful news about your little girl!!! Im very very happy for you! See, power of prayer is amazing!

August 10, 2008
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(((((Netsirk & daughter))))) I hope that all is well with you this weekend. Just checking in to see how you are doing.

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((((((((((NETSIRK))))))))))

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(((((Netsirk)))))) @--]------

August 15, 2008
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Things are going well here on my end. I have to say that the medication they started my daughter on is not going well so we are waiting on the doctor to see if we can switch her back to the medication she was on previously.

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((((((((((NETSIRK&DAUGHTER))))))))))

August 15, 2008
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Oh im sorry to hear that the meds are not working well. Hopefully they can just switch your daughter back.
HAPPY FRIDAY !!!! @--]-----

August 15, 2008
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The medication was making her dizzy and giving her headaches. With having a brain tumor those are also symptoms of the pressure building up in her brain so to have her on medication that is doing the same thing is not good. Her doctor emailed me and said that since her MRI was stable last week she knows it is just the medication so she is taking her off of it and is sending out the prescription for her old medication which was working.

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