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Afghan Sisters Refuge
November 23, 2006
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Anyone around?

November 23, 2006
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hello???

gg, I love you sweet sis....

November 23, 2006
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(((Mich)))~ Drunk? You? Oh, what will LL say? LOL

Imbibe but don't drown, okay?

Need~ I haven't decided. I've been looking at other threads. Commenting to people I know or feel for. but other than that I'm staying pretty quiet.

I have talked to Dereka. She's nice and quite interesting. She thought she had said something that may have offended me but I didn't see it so I told her not to worry about it.

I just don't know. Need, I'm not angry any longer. I just wished it had been handled better, I guess. It didn't bother me that other people had opinions, even if that clique comment was way over the top, but the way the broached it bothered me. Not once did they come to us or did they finish reading the threads. It just seemed judgemental. Then we got asked to leave and the woman who told someone to kill themself didn't get anything. It was all too much.

I'm sorry. I'm rehashing it and that's probably going to drive you to bonk me on the head.

Are the boys in bed or are they having another New Year's Eve celebration?

November 23, 2006
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I have to go, I iwll be back in a bit, after I have had more to drink....I am getting stupid....I love it....not a care in the world...

November 23, 2006
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yes Cyn, it is true....DRUNK...can't awlk reakky..

November 23, 2006
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Cyndra, no bonks from me, because I TOTALLY agree with you....then we crossed the wall and still they came...what's with that??? Hope we are on the free side of the wall! Have not dared to go back...

mich, be careful sweetie,,,okay...guess you are having a Happy Thanksgiving!!!

November 23, 2006
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Michy~ If you have a hangover in the morning I'm ringing the alarm bells!!!

Goodness, I surely hope you don't get hangovers.

GG~ Thanks for agreeing. I just think I may make it worse for Need by bringing it up. I know it upsets us all, but she doesn't need to be stressed out about the situation here, does she?

Maybe Alecia is right, I'm toxic.

November 23, 2006
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No you are not toxic Cyndra and I do not have the strength to BONK you right now.... Mich- glad that you are enjoying your Thanksgiving but do be careful...

November 23, 2006
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got on the scale... lost 25 pounds since September... not that I cannot afford to lose it... but this is what happens.. I am not an emotional eater...

November 23, 2006
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Need~ I have twenty-five pounds I can give you. Is there any place in particular you want it? I'll send mine to NJ any time, just let me know.

Thanks for saying I'm not toxic.

You asked if it was raining here. Not now, but it poured yesterday and this morning. It is still cold and damp. Lovely weather for Thanksgiving.

November 23, 2006
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Cyn, weren't you the one that told me that it is okay to feel? speak? I agree totally with you...You are not toxic; you are wonderful! You are a leader!...I know mich would agree too if she could talk right now...cracking up over her typing!!! like sover!!!

S l o w d o w n michy!!!

(((need)))

November 23, 2006
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Cyndra~ I do agree with you about the way it was handled.. I just want you to reconsider for what YOU get out of being connected in this sisterhood...

I know that it is unfair... It is so distressing to me...

November 23, 2006
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Need, I can give you 25 also,,,we can make you into a little plump turkey!!!
Gained a lot of weight due to no activity and depression and events of this year..

November 23, 2006
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It has been cold and raining all day long...

I cracked up too when I saw Mich
type SOVER!!

November 23, 2006
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Cyndra,

I will always have the were-with-all to BONK you on the head or as you said give you a good swift kick in the behind.

Remember what you said to me earlier? Move on - you can do it, actually, I think now is the time you need to be encouraging your other "sisters" to be moving on as well and not participating in "crazy making."

Didn't know you would end up with a Mother Hen along with a Worried Dad did you? And, by the way? He thinks of me as his "Zin-Mom" so perhaps I am a Grand Mother Hen?

In any case.

Mich... I will admit to being worried about you. 13 jello shots in 30 minutes? Dear that is going to give you alcohol poisening. Please, strart drinking water to flush you out.

Z.

November 23, 2006
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It is not like I cannot afford to lose weight.. I put on all of that from last year when I had those cortisone shots in my spine..

when my ex-husband left, I lost 75 pounds in a year.. I managed to keep it off until I got the cortisone shots...

I was just suprised when I got on the scale.. thought the damn thing was broken...

November 23, 2006
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Zinnie~ LOL I think I'm going to call you Zen-Mom instead. I appreciate the bonk and the swift kick.

Okay, new leaf.

Mich~ Please do drink some water and start hydrating. Even though jello shots don't have that much alcohol in them that many in so little time isn't good. HYDRATE please.

Need~ How are your flu symptoms? You seem to be feeling better. I'm sorry, I misunderstood!! I thought you said you COULDN'T afford to lose the weight. That's why I offered some of mine to you. LOL

GG~ Need says she doesn't need the weight. I'm trying to give it away, but there are no takers!!!

I'm going to go to bed now. I'm getting sleepy. After cooking, eating and cleaning all day. Just want to crawl into bed and go to sleep.

Sleep well all. Zinnie thanks for the welcome and the reminder.

November 23, 2006
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goodnight Cyndra... sweet dreams.. I am hoping to lay down as soon as the boys get in their beds.. I am so tired.... goodnight..

thanks for the welcome here Zen-mom!!

November 23, 2006
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hi folks,

I posted on this thread last night but it's quite a ways back... may have gotten lost in the shuffle as I haven't seen any responses. And it sounds like some of you are avoiding reading threads on the support side, so you may not have seen my response to Mich over in "kroika's kitchen" when she came to say maybe-goodbye. (Mich, if you haven't read it, there's a post there.)

As a sort of 'associate member' of the fruit bowl, I hope the kumquat's utterances are accepted as being sincere and well-meant -- as I do believe the other feedback you received was.

I've read some posts today that seem to contain an "us versus them" theme and I really hope that will be a quickly passing stage.

I hope you will continue to drop by the kitchen if you're ever of a mind. Take care and I hope you're enjoying what's left of your Thanksgiving day.

all best regards from kousin k

November 23, 2006
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Still drinking...h made more jell-o shots...yeah...these ones are different, last ones were with rum, these ones are with tequilla. Plus I was drinking Smirnoff too....yipppeeee

Kroika,

I read your post...I don't have words right now, I am just hurt...not by you. And am still VERy strongly considering leaving. I will never feel as safe as I did here, and I will always have an insecure feeling...dealing with it today...the best I can.

I love you, and I hate to thikn of leaving...but, I have to do what is best for me. Though I won't do it without talking to my sisters first. And that really isn't possible today.

Honestly, I almost feel as if I am in the middle of an abusive relationship, and to be quite honest, I am pissed. There are not enough words to describe my current feelings of hurt and feeling betrayed. Especially once I knew we were followed over here. Again, not by you. I love you and you have truly helped me. Thank you.

Mandy

November 23, 2006
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Need, I have about 60 pounds you can have....

gg, no making fun of my typing...k?

LL, I miss you and I love you and i hope that you had a good Thanksgiving..,

Cyn, hope you have had a good day...

Zinnie, it's ok, I need a mom. Thanks.

love you all girls...hope your day is going as smooth as mine...

I am thankful for JELL-O

Mandy

November 23, 2006
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Are all of my sisters sleeping?

November 23, 2006
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mich, I am here, surviving...

November 23, 2006
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mich, it is 10:50 your time and I need to go to bed w/in 30 min...Crazy me told my sister that I would shop with her at 5 a.m....Am I codependent or what? I can't even stand in one place hardly at all right now...Are u still up? Wait, are u still standing? LOL

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holding you close gg, even if it does bother people...I am going to bed. totally not feeling the greatest, and I think our company is finally leaving...I love you, and I will be around tomorrow. If you get the chance get on here and let me know when you will be around....I love you gg. You are VERy special to me. I hope you know that.

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