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Afghan Sisters Refuge
November 23, 2006
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Mich~ I am still here for the moment.

How's your morning going? What time is brunch? I've finished two pies. I have to start on the maccaroni and cheese and then put the roast beast in the oven.

November 23, 2006
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I am ok. I hope you have a good day. I wish that I could just talk to you guys...

November 23, 2006
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Cyn, if you do leave please don't do it without leaving your email address for the s/c. Post it to her. I am really struggling with this. In ways that I cannot explain. I know that LL won't go and niether will Need. That breaks my heart to think about but I really don't want to be here anymore. I will NOT go without saying goodbye...but I really think that we ALL (you, me, LL, Need, and gg) need to talk first. There is an awful lot of love and friendship to let go of without doing it together. I am waiting for one question to be answered from the s/c before I completely make my decision. If you go, are you willing to let us contact you by email? I have tears streaming down my face to even think about this. It makes me so sad.

November 23, 2006
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Mich~ I gave my e-mail information to the SC. She has it.

I understand about not wanting to be here anymore. I just feel so...I don't know. I can't believe you can tell someone to go kill themselves and everyone dismisses that or at least seems to shrug it off.

I really don't expect anyone to leave. Need and LL won't leave. I don't think GG will either. I don't know if I will stay or go. I just don't like what happened. To me it was the equivalent of being "flamed" when lists became popular in the early 90s.

We'll see. Have a great day. I love you much. Kiss the kids for me.

November 23, 2006
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I love you too Cyn. You have a good day too.

November 23, 2006
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Good Mornings Sisters!! Happy Thanksgiving to you all.

I have just a moment here....wished that I could make more comments AND wished I had time to post on the thread that has caused so much attention to be focused here on us. I have refrained from saying anything to this point about what has gone down because I do not like being angry anymore, don't like to waste my time defending my actions (did that for yrs to my abuser.) I have tried to just let things that have been said roll of my back so I don't regret saying anything out of haste. But I will post later on where I am at with all of this.

Sorry that I got to go. Just wanted to let you girls know that I love ya all and each of you will be in thought today.

Love. LL

November 23, 2006
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Love you too LL, happy thanksgiving...for what it can be. It is a tough day for me. This didn't make the holiday any easier to handle...I won't leave without saying goodbye...PROMISE

November 23, 2006
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oh and can't forget - WD thanks for the welcome only WD style and as always your posts either make me laugh, cry or think or something like that. I laughed AND smiled with this one : )

((((WD))))

November 23, 2006
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Mich don't go anywhere yet...wait until we all get a chance to talk about it....and just a FYI...that thought is also on my mind.

Hopefully I will have time to get it all out that is going through my mind.

Anyways. I love you, Put a smile on your face and know that you have sisters here that love you & care about you gf!!

November 23, 2006
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I admit that surprises me.. But I love you, and I will not go anywhere YET. but, I am angry....they followed us over here to keep running their mouth why? LET IT GO.

November 23, 2006
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Mich~ I agree with you. They got what they wanted why don't they just stop? I don't know.

LL~ I didn't think you would even consider leaving. I know how much this site has helped you.

I really do like what I've learned and experienced here, but I don't feel comfortable anymore. Alycia doesn't feel she's judged anyone but just harmlessly voiced an opinion.

Whatever. How about for today we just be thankful that we found each other, solid friendships, and loving support? I know I am thankful that I found the four of you.

Love,
Cyn

November 23, 2006
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((((Afghan Sisters))))
Have a good thanksgiving ladies, and listen to WD. We all love tiki lights don't we?? Now what could be better:)

November 23, 2006
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(((((A.S.)))))

Just popped in to say that I am really upset about what happened on the other side! I NEVER felt excluded from that thread.

Love and hugs to you all...
((((((((((A.S.)))))))))

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November 23, 2006
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Hi Lightchaser, Ta for the welcome.

((((RED)))) Thanks for stopping in. I hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving if you're American, if not have a great day!!!

November 23, 2006
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Sounds good Cyn, but this is NOT over...we all need to discuss this...

I love you all....

Happy Thanksgiving

November 23, 2006
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Mich~ I will be here to talk about it after the holiday. I won't just walk off without talking to the four of you.

Damn, NOW is the time to exercise brat privelege!!! LOL

November 23, 2006
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Cyn

HAVE A WONDERFUL THANKSGIVING TOO!

Yes, I am American.

Hope everyone around the world has a great day...and can be thankful for the good things that are or have been in their lives!

I will pop in on this thread once in a while, just to say "hi" and see how everyone is doing. Hope some do not leave the site entirely!

I care about what some of you have been going through and worry!

If I can be of any help, just flag me on the other side, okay?

LOVE TO YOU ALL! AND HUGS! AND PRAYERS!

(((((((((((AFGAN SISTERS))))))))))

Red

November 23, 2006
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I pulled this thread up accidently - and lo and behold I did find out something interesting...

Worried Dad takes bubble baths, candles, music, book and all. Knowing that Worried Dad has long hair down his back (he shared that a long time ago) - I now have a picture in my mind of the distinguished Worried Dad, reading and writing his scholarly missives from his bubble bath - with his hair up in a multi-colored polka dotted shower cap.

And that my friends - is a picture worth a million words.

Now... here is my advice for you "Sisters" and keep in mind it is only advice from an overly - motherly type - just ask Worried Dad - so, I ask that you listen to it, BUT, you do NOT have to follow it as like all opinions - it is coming from one person, meant to be helpful, but, only YOU can decide what is best for YOU.

So, you have been asked to come to the Libs side? It is not a bad place, as Worried Dad says look at the cool decor! It is also the home of the infamous little red LOUD dog - the little guy even has the SC eating out of his little paw and you can view his photo if you so choose by clicking on the wall of sponsors.

I was sent over here while dealing with a more creative side of me - which if you knew me - you would know is very at odds for my "real life" personality which is extremely analytical, and as Worried Dad will attest to is kind of a "tough, take no prisioners, tank rolling" kind of person.

Over here? I can be free'er (is that a word?) with my expressions, let my imagination run wild, write some of my short stories which are completely and utterly silly - and guess what? Out of that? I have a tentative book deal to write five childrens books! Something that I started doing here as therapy, might now make me some money - which I will turn around and donate to Cancer research. Another of my passions.

I will be honest, I have not gone over and read the other threads - and truthfully? My life has evolved such so that I am not on these boards every day - as I dealt with why I originally came here and have moved on for the most part - and that will indeed happen with you ladies too - if you will let it.

So, keep your thread over here - no one is going to dun you for it - the SC asked you to do so, and you started your thread over here - or that is what I got from the beginning posts. Some of us "Libbers" have come on and said "WELCOME" and we mean it. We might choose to post on this thread from time to time, and we (I) ask that you might want to read and participate in some of our threads over here.

Worried Dad is right - Libs has it all... we have cooking, sex, deep thoughts, silly stories involving my crazy dog and his magic carpet. We also have a support network of helping Worried Dad locate his son. Helping me deal with a daughters handicaps - that were borne of an attack not of nature. A place where I have been able to come and rant and rave about dealing with, and living with cancer. Where Juanita has felt free to talk about some of the deepest secrets she has kept for all of her life that she can no longer keep. And now? It seems that we have a group of "sisters" that are over here helping each other the best they know how.

So - keep helping each other the way you you have been, post to see each other through the days and nights when you need it - reach out to others here if you can and they will reach back - but, at this point? You simply MUST move on... keep posting that is for sure, but, let the negative go. The only way to stop crazy making is to stop making it... So... just let the comments go - as they say "take what you like and leave the rest" and continue your support network over here and DON'T worry about who said what on any other thread - you are here for each other and that is what counts.

With much love,

Z.

November 23, 2006
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Cyndra is doesnt say if your american it says in America have I said somthing wrong

November 23, 2006
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I think I am being paranoid and reading too much into stuff. I am sorry Cyndra as I am assuming you were referring to my thread, Please except my apology if I am wrong. eeeeek

November 23, 2006
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Dereka~ You lost me. I thought I had written "if you're American". I don't know anything about your thread, but will read it if you like.

Oh, dereka!! No need for apologies. You didn't do anything wrong.

Geez!! Have I gotten that bad??

Zinnie~ You are absolutely right. I am not going to go back to the other side and read. It just isn't going to help me to anything, least of all move the hell on. Thanks for that swift kick in the rear.

I think I'm going to like the Libs side just as soon as I read some of the threads. I've posted on this side, but didn't really get what it was for. So, now I'm over here and the people have been very welcoming. Thank you all for that.

Regards,
Cyndra

November 23, 2006
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Hi Cyndra

I am being totally paranoid seriously I have just been thinking aobut it while having my dinner, I am so self conscious its laughable. I thought that someone was gonna think I was a bit dizzy for not knowing about Thanksgiving which I posted on my thread before, lol and it has just been on the news what it is, so now I feel like a total plonker. Its got nothing to do with you I think you are lovely and and I am being an idiot but I gotta laugh at myself hope you will laugh with me , If I havent lost you in my madness. x Dereka

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please dont leave Cyndra

November 23, 2006
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Cyndra Pleas ereply so I know you got my carzy wacky explantion.:) Are you there?

November 23, 2006
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Dereka~ Sorry I didn't reply sooner. I'm still cooking. We'll be eating in about an hour. Don't like to eat REALLY early as is the tradition.

You are not crazy or whaky at all. You misunderstood something or whatever. No harm done. Really. Don't think about it again. Deal?

By the way, I'm glad you are posting. I like reading your comments.

Regards,
Cyn

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