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Afghan Sisters Refuge
November 24, 2006
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GG, I LOVE YOU TOO!!!

November 24, 2006
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Please girls dont get upset by all this its really sad to read, its too hard to talk to everyone you guys all seem to be close and strong so I really would worry about it just carry chillin together like you lived around the corner from each other and you were sat in the lounge because thats what us girlies do anyway. Its not your fault if people feel a bit left out its not nice but its natural we all gel with different people, You cant spread yourself too thinly I like my peanut butter crunchy and wholesome the real thing not thin and nto whole ones.

November 24, 2006
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I am so depressed over all of this and there is no way anyone else will understand...I am crying because mich seems like her mind is made up and I have a feeling I know...LL, when can we all talk? What is your work schedule?

If you read a post someone wrote to need, the dependency issue being written about is me and my dependency on mich...LL, you explained it once so well to me when I didn't understand it...If anyone should leave, it should just be me...I am too sensitive and can't take constructive criticism...but I really was working on that, but apparently not ready to handle this site...I feel so screwed up and depressed right now, and yes,LL,I broke the promise...and I just have so much going on right now to make any clear decisions...but I am the weakest of the group and I know it...

I feel like I would have to start over...don't know...just don't know...not even feeling free to write how I feel anymore...see, I can't handle it...I am not tough like you LL...I admire you for that...

I need to talk to my sisters!!!!I love all of you...feel so misunderstood....don't they know my life at work and home have improved because of my growing self-confidence which was rooted on this beautiful site?

wasting words here I feel,,,

November 24, 2006
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and I forgot to say that you all have helped me anyway soem of you responding Need Cyndra Mich GG and sleepless and others sorry if I havent mentioned your name anyone but even by reading the threads I get help SO NO ONE IS ALLOWED TO LEAVE. sooory for shouting

November 24, 2006
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gg dont cry 🙁 I got no tissues:( Dont be depressed at this , this is supposed to be a place to cheer you and confront yourself, you cant leave it will upset too many.

November 24, 2006
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GG,

Do you think it might be possible to listen and learn and grow and accept other people's opinions...without having to leave this site???

I have to be honest here...that is the one thing that I don't understand with all of the sisters.....why does it have to be so black or white?

Why can't people give their opinions without then feeling guilty for making you all want to leave? To be honest...it feels like emotional blackmail and I'm sorry if that upsets anyone that I said that but that is how it feels to me.

Isn't listening, learning, healing, growing, communicating, setting boundaries, resolving issues, etc...what this site is all about????
At least that is what I thought in the past 2 years that I have been coming here.

I don't know....I just don't understand it.

November 24, 2006
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Lolli!

"To be honest...it feels like emotional blackmail"

Ahhhhhhhhh

November 24, 2006
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GG- its looks like Monday morning or maybe in the afternoon would work best...although this weekend say after 3pm cst would work too. Ya all let me know...and has Cyndra been around??? I haven't been able to read all the posts or keep up with what is going on with each of you.

and I figured that you and/or Mich would have a tough time handling things that have been said or pointed out (as some would say is being done)...you two are the most vunerable at this point... please hang in there, have faith and put the damn scissors down!!! And thats an order from your big sis : )

Love ya....((((GG)))) LL

(((((Derka)))) you sound like me -"No one is allowed to leave!!"

November 24, 2006
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Going back to bed...hang in there GG & Mich...

and oh, GG I understand what your feeling regarding wanting to break the promise...I have a mirror to look into tonight (LOL) god this is all so unreal.

November 24, 2006
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Hello Sisters,

It is my way not to intrude much on threads where Women's Work is being done. Lots of the time, the most helpful thing a man can do is just to stay the heck out of the way.

And after I have had my little say here I am going to butt out again, because I respect the work of women. IMO, you would get more benefit at this time working with women, including, Zinnie and Free and Ladeska, not me.

That being said, I am the clown on the scene, so here I go:

I see this particular situation and thread developing into something larger than just women's work, and it is big work, ambitious work, mighty work.

It is the work of healing and growing human beings. It is the work of using the power of relationships to help us heal and grow. And it is the work of using the power of our souls and the power of our relationships to HELP OTHERS heal and grow.

That is what I think the Sisters want to do and hunger for and have been working for.

And in my opinion, that is a huge part of the work of AAC.

Therefore you have called me to you.

So I feel called to put in another two cents.

I am going to do something that I have not done here before.

I want you to respect that I am

1) going out on a limb here, and fully expect to be torn to cyber-shreds. and

2) offering you something that no other AAC poster or cohort has ever gotten from me--and probably never will again.

I am going to offer the Afghan Sisters my Service. For a limited time. I want to do a job for you and for us, and then get out of your way.

Don't agree or disagree to let me serve you yet. Let me give you my pitch first.

All I am asking is that you just be yourselves, bear with me a little, and take some time to reflect and talk and listen.

I will take one more post to describe a sketch of what "service" I am offerring.

Then, it might be best if you meet me at WD's embassy.

November 24, 2006
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I do not and can not read every thread at AAC.

I only read the threads with titles that suggest that I might be able to find or offer support.

Except in Libs.

The exception is if my handle or "WD' is in the title or if I have been referred to a thread.

Sometimes, by dumb luck I stumble onto amazing threads, too.

That is how I found the Sisters.

November 24, 2006
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I screwed up... I meant that I would have asked my sisters if the others could join BUT I DID NOT ASK THEM... SO THEREFORE WE ARE NOT EXCLUSIVE...SORRY I SCREWED UP WHAT I HAD POSTED EARLIER...

PEOPLE MAKE MISTAKES....

November 24, 2006
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Last post I read before I started this post, now trying quickly to finish it up: Worried Dad- wished I had more time to respond by as always- you're just great. And thank you.

First, Need I didn't mean to exclude you from what I said about GG & Mich being the most vulnerable right now. In fact it was just this week that some of the deep hurt you hold was tapped into by the scumshit that left you feeling like you had hit rock bottom ... though you’ve shared deeply in the past, I think now the well was just really getting tap. ((((Need))))

GG & Mich I am VERY worried about you two right now as I had a little battle tonight while getting ready for work. Please all just do a check in - I love you girls. Cyndra- that includes you too : ) We don’t have to do any sharing until we figure out what we’re going to do, but I just need to know that you all are OK.

AND a btw about my feelings on offering someone constructive criticism on this website….I’m all for it…INFACT just week ago I got hit up with it myself by Cyndra & GG…things that I needed to hear. Ma Strong & FeelingFree both as ways back also stuck their neck out to point out a few things that weren’t sure if I wanted to hear. I took those “constructive criticism’s” as something very valuable coming from people who have gotten to know me, from people that I knew truly had my best interests at heart. They had nothing to gain or to prove and it was done out of love. I think we just need to be careful on who we choose to offer our constructive cristisims too.

November 24, 2006
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LL-- I did not mind that you did not include me with GG and Mich about being vulnerable right now.. I understand I did not take any offense to it at all.... Thanks for what you posted before about all that we have went through...MICH, me, and GG...

I love you LL...

Did I miss something when i was at work? When is the meeting? did anyone figure out a day and time?

November 25, 2006
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I have made up my mind girls...this is craziness.

November 25, 2006
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MICh-- glad to hear from you tonight. I came home from work and had to read up on the thread... Did you read what LL wrote...? that was so awesome.. she is the big sister...

Mich..???

November 25, 2006
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checking in, LL....

need, no def. time yet, guess everyone needs to post work schedules...I am working mon and tues. but home at 4;30 CST...OFF WEEKEND...

November 25, 2006
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OK...

MOn- work til 2 EST

Tues 10-4 ESt

wed-10-2 EST

thurs 10-2 EST

fri 6-10 pm EST

sat -off

November 25, 2006
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mich, ditto, afraid to write anything, but want to talk to my sisters...can't take any more negative criticism

November 25, 2006
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Has anyone heard from Cyndra today??

November 25, 2006
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I apologize for screwing up my words before and I posted to ISis about it as well..

November 25, 2006
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girls, I really need some answers by tues...

November 25, 2006
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anyone still here???

November 25, 2006
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off and on, bad headache

November 25, 2006
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GG-- When did the headache start??

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