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Afghan Sisters......After the storm...
November 26, 2006
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I am not sure what all happened because I have not been on since last wednesday. Could not get on over the weekend because I was at my parents house. And, I really don't need to know the details.

I just wanted you to know that even on what probably seems like the worst day of your "sisterhood"--you made a difference--all of you.

Whether I talked to all of you or not, your collective ideas shine through each other.

You reached out to me in a way that I could relate to, and..

it made a difference.

It made me not give up on the thread site.
It made me take a look at a daily and weekly plan instead of a 6 month plan, as was sugguested by my counselor.
It made me feel like there are other funny people and "smart asses" out there with similar problems--hurting just like me.

Just wanted to take a moment to put my two cents in......I will keep looking for you on the other side, and I hope you read my new thread "baby steps"

thanks again.
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November 26, 2006
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Thanks soprano for the kind words...

mich, glad you are back home safe...

I am back and forth, doing a lot of school work on the computer tonight;have to do plans for the next three weeks for my sub and it takes a lot of planning on a different level...ugh...

mich...this is hard...went and read some things on support side and started hurting again...I can't believe those two strong women left...just can't believe it...don't want to believe it...

November 26, 2006
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gg,

I am having real issues. BAD. I just read LL's post. Wanting to give it all up again.

November 26, 2006
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gg, are you around?

November 26, 2006
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hi GG and Mich--- I want you both to know that I refuse to leave this site... I will fight for us to remain sisters here on the libs side.. so we graduated a little earlier than expected and now two are gone.........

BUT THE THRIPLETS REMAIN!!!!!

remember we still will have to make a Courage Night....

I love you MICh.. I read your letter to LL and Cyndra..and you did a wonderful job expressing your feelings MICh.. I am proud of you...YOU BIG SHIT SISTER!!!!!! I know that we are all upset and hurt but We will make it...

I love you GG... I know that you are going through a difficult time and worried about the surgery.. I am NOT leaving you GG....You are my little shit sister!!!

I had to work yesterday.. then went bowling.. I spent some time with pondscum flea shit and I have to admit that I had a good time.

THe anti-depressant is kicking in.. or it is at least controlled a lot of my ADD symptoms....

Maybe you can talk to your doctor about it... it is common to treat ADD with anti-depressants...

I LOVE YOU ALL...

November 26, 2006
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Need,

I am so sorry if I give it all up. I just feel like there is not a point right now.

November 26, 2006
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Where did what is left of my sisters go? Need, gg?

November 26, 2006
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mICH--

I just read what LL responded and her last words.. crying so much...

and now i came back here and does that mean that you are leaving??

I am so confused..

GG?? is she leaving too??

November 26, 2006
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I have more courage.. I think LL is right ...that all three of us can do this....

November 26, 2006
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I don't know if gg has even read what LL wrote, to be honest...I don't know. LL's response makes me sick. And I am right back to wanting to choke her..It doesn't make sense...and I can't feel like I ever meant what she said I did.

November 26, 2006
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mich, just came back...going to read LL's post...just promise me girls...please...promise me you won't leave me without us talking...I can't take it...

November 26, 2006
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I am not going anywhere...not without talking....that is not fair to you two.

November 26, 2006
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I will not leave without talking to you both........

November 26, 2006
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so am i getting this right.... LL is going to continue to be here... but not on the afghan sisters....?

and same with Cyndra?? what happened to her? she just left without goodbye?? am I missing something?

November 26, 2006
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LL hates the place and will never feel comfortable here, but she won't relinquish her rights. Cyn already is gone.

November 26, 2006
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Cyn did not say goodbye??

November 26, 2006
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mich and need, tears, tears, tears...

November 26, 2006
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NO, niether one of them stuck around to talk. In Cyns defense though, I think she had asked right away to be removed....and she was planning to stay and got removed before she could talk to us.

November 26, 2006
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What do we do? Where does this go from here? Do we chance what will happen if we leave here? Is there any hope if we stay?

November 26, 2006
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tears,, tears, tears... sorry i was confused... i still cannot believe that this is all true.. that cyn is gone...gone completely.... and LL is watching from the sidelines...

girls.. i think we can do it...

it will take time

November 26, 2006
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I don't even want to truly. People have already said that they will not give us their opinions anymore. GG is afraid to ask to be held, what is the point of staying? I can't do this. I feel like they gave up wothout a fight. I fought, the fight is over. I lost.

November 26, 2006
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I want to be here at least til GG has her surgery......

November 26, 2006
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I understand Mich... and you did fight... for the right reasons...

but we are fighters...

I am not afraid of others giving opinions...

November 26, 2006
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Cyndra could always come back...

November 26, 2006
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They won't. Bev even questioned because of LL's response if me talking to her was the best thing to do. I don't want to continue like this. I can't. We will never have people talk to us like they used to.

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