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Afghan Sisters......After the storm...
November 25, 2006
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Need, i know you are working this weekend some, and hope you are still around the site...been worried about you...((((need)))))

November 25, 2006
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Mich, I want you to go and have a fantastic time with your daughter at the concert...I just put one of mine on a plane today; going to Lake Tahoe, first time skiing and seeing snow...None of my kids have seen snow...she just had a great opportunity, free plane ticket and hotel....the other expenses are her Christmas from us and rest of family...I am happy for her...so treasure this night with that beautiful little girl of yours....I love you mich...

still feel so sad, terribly sad....

November 25, 2006
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Hi scared

You stated earlier that people will leave you alone. Who are the people that won't leave you alone?

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November 25, 2006
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gg, we will work this out...one way or the other. Ok. Promise...I am going to have a good night with my daughter...I love Martina McBride...

I love you gg. We will get through this. What doesn't kill us will only make us stronger.

Mich

November 25, 2006
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promise too mich...scared though...have fun...love you 2

November 25, 2006
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I love you gg, we will do this TOGETHER. We just have to fight for what we believe in and I believe in the sisters gg. DO you?

November 25, 2006
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(((Mich))),

I wrote this on the other side but I just have to say it here as well....

I am SO proud of you!!!! And GG too.

Have fun at your concert.

Love,
Lolli

November 25, 2006
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Hi scared

Have I offended you somehow?

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November 25, 2006
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Feeling invisible here. Am I not supposed to be posting on this thread? Is there a list someplace of those who can post here and those who should not? Let me know- I'll go check it out.

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November 25, 2006
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free, no, but no one has been around much today...ok...just got home myself...

November 25, 2006
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oh and free, understand about invisible...wrote a poem about it on the other side if you want to look it up...I feel that way a lot...

November 25, 2006
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Hi gg

Well I had posted to Scared and she posted right under me as if I wasn't even there.

It was weird.

If I'm one of the people that bother, I can let things be.

It's the awkward silence as if I'm not here, that is, well, weird.

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November 25, 2006
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free, the posting happens like that all the time; cross posting??? Sometimes, I go back and see posts that I never saw before, promise...don't worry, ok?

November 25, 2006
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LL, I need to talk and just hoping you are reading even if you aren't commenting...don't know where need is, cyn is gone, and mich went to a concert...no sisters...

I can't even write a post, because I am still so distraught over everything and can't think clearly...yet, I can't let go either...maybe, I am too weak either way...Just the idea of no support or friendship sets me in dangerous territory in the mind...I need you...You are so good at explaining things from a different perspective...

I know in my heart things will never be the same and that hurts to the core...but, right now, I have nothing to go to and am not leaving mich...no way....I am attending coda meetings and that is good, but not like the comfort of my sisters...see, we know, everything served a purpose in our lives...I am rambling here now, because I just want to reach out and scream,,,come back LL, PLEASE!!!! I love you!!!!
your lil sis and lil shit,,,,gg

November 25, 2006
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Hi gg,

kousin kroika is here for awhile if you want to talk... will I do?

November 25, 2006
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of course, if you want to

November 25, 2006
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gg,

Part of my codep recovery is only offering things I mean to offer :o)

I'm happy to talk with you.... !

November 25, 2006
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hey kousin, thanks for being sweet,,,not good company for you though

November 25, 2006
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why don't you think you're good company for me?

November 25, 2006
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because i am so down, so sad...confused, you name it...

November 25, 2006
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I know it's hard to let others see us this way. I do still have trouble with that myself. But this is a good place to come with those feelings.

November 25, 2006
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I just don't know what to say...you can talk if you want to...just want to cry

November 25, 2006
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Crying is OK too. I know the last few days have been very intense here, plus you have the upcoming surgery.

And I gather from what I have learned from over the years from American friends, that Thanksgiving in the US stirs up a lot of family intensity and issues... and kind of ushers in the leadup to Christmas, which extends all that stress. Phew! It makes me flinch just to write about it!

November 25, 2006
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yea, don't know if you know my story, but had to be with my family for two days...problems there...secrets there....

November 25, 2006
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Yes, I think I know the main points. I can't remember though, if you are seeing a counsellor. Do you have any in-the-flesh person that gives you support when you have to see your father?

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