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accused of cheatin which i wasnt
December 29, 2013
1:28 am
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almost 3 months ago i asked my ex boyfriend, Laurent to be my boyfriend and he said yea.... i thought we would last a long time because i started to have really deep feelings for him...on thanksgiving we were talkin about random topics and then he said he loved me...  and his "friend" darneshia popped up(she's the reason we met) as a topic and i asked him wuts between them and he said he had a crush on her for a long time and he still does and they never dated because he wouldnt want to mess up there friendship..and at that moment somethin just went dead inside me... but through the whole relationship i can count the number of times we hugged on one hand..we never kissed...we really didnt speak at school..but wen i saw him my heart went to beating really fast because i was happy to c him...but he always went the other way or says he didnt c me....on christmas he asked me aobut this boy larry thats in all my classes. he said people were tellin him i was messing around with larry and it was embarrassing for him because he doesnt know larry...were on christmas break rite now and i honestly forgot about everything and everyone related to school...he started sayin i was cheatin and our whole relationship was a lie from the beginning....i confest and told him LARRY kissed ME 2 DAYS BEFORE i asked him to be my boyfriend.and i told him i also let larry know that i didnt like him that way and i didnt like him at all..but he wouldnt believe me...then he said people said i was messin around with larry and another boy and i seriously started crying because he believed wut people were saying about me and he let dhem talk about me like that as if im a hoe(im a virgin,until im married) and i got pissed off...then he said i lied to him about goin out with this boy michael at our school. but i didnt kno why he wanted to kno about michael because i went out with michael for less than a week because he started talkin about kds and marriage and he loved me and stuff so i broke it off...i thought laurent wanted to break up with me but he said he just wanted a break..but i said a break is just like breaking up because ur gonna date other people..and i wasnt cool with that.soo he mine as well break up with me...he didnt do it so i did it for him..i sweared that i wasnt cheatin but he didnt believe....i told him how its like for me at school..when people ask if we still go out or why we neva kissed or hugg and why he always huggin otha people and on istagram callin other girls fine and sexy and stuff..and i just say idk ask him..because i want to do all that...he said he loved me and i love him...rite now im still trying to get him back but he keeps changin the subject..i wanna say f**k you im not beggin u no moe and move on but....im still into him a lot...he makes me laugh a lot..and i really do care about him...i also had a dream of him kissing another girl right in front of me... i couldnt c her face but it looked liike darneshia...that night i woke up cryin and couldnt go back to sleep because i was scared to have the same dream...can someone please tell me what to do...to prove to him i never cheated. and that i love him and want him back

December 29, 2013
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Thank you for sharing your situation.  Here is what I would do if I was in your situation with all the long years of knowledge of dating & people gossiping & people playing games with the relationship thing.  I would just take a look at your goals in life besides being a "girlfriend" & hoping to get married one day & focus on just having some true friends and your school work.  You should never cry if someone does not believe what you are telling them if it is the truth.  I can tell that you are young, but the rotten mind games & gossip never ever stop.  You must be safe and secure in your own person & know who you are.  Then no matter what lies people tell, no matter what guy decides to try to break your heart(because this might happen), your focus will be on what you want out of life.  What are you studying to become in school?  What dreams do you have about what your job might be?  What do you like to do when it's just you & your family or just you on your own?  If you build your own world outside of this nasty boyfriend/girlfriend/he said/she said/ I wanna cry thing, it's always going to take away from your strength for no good reason.  If you can manage to stay away from these kinds of people, you will find a different group one day.  In that group are people who have no time for playing stupid mind games.  In that group are mature people with strong values & if you do choose to marry, in that group I pray you meet a man who respects you, takes care of you and would never treat you with suspect.


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