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A sick world we live in.
December 6, 2008
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So I cant sleep. In some trouble right now. Watching the news.

I cant say I go to church. I do have my own form of beliefs though. I must admit that what has been going on in the world makes me think something will happen. Maybe worse the Katrina (sp). I hope not, but something must happen.

I mean from the mother who decided to pretend to be a kid on myspace to break a teens heart. I know there was a story behind it all. But that is just messed up.

Or the father who had his daughter or something in the basement and had children with her. I think 19 kids. I mean what the hell.

I know there is more. Based on this site too. The abuse. I am sure it happened before. I believe we hear about it more so. Women are becoming more present. I guess what I mean is where as before a womans place was "in the home" and she had to deal with whatever. Now women are getting out and maybe talking more about it then before. Even men for the fact.

I mean what kind of world do we live in with all this abuse? The news is sick. All it is is negative. Is that what they think we want to hear now?

Look at our reality tv. I mean come on. From the real world to all these shows about eating odd stuff or being smoeones bf/gf/bff. What the hell?

I know this is a rant. But I am hoping I can get some discussion if perhaps anyone thinks something is going to happen with all this, well, evil that we have.

I am afraid to have kids for fear of what they are going to have to deal with. I was reading another thread regarding generations. It is sad I didnt graduate long ago from hs and yet I can say kids today. What has caused this jump. I mean 5th graders having sex. Little girls getting pregnant. Not sayingthat is the little girls fault, but little girls shouldnt be having sex.

It really makes me sick.

December 6, 2008
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It is a sick world we live in sweetheart. I dont watch news myself its to hard and with the kids all we can do is show them what an adult is supposed to be like and love them with everything we have. Even If we were raised in a sick world we can try and help change that. We can have our children make this world a better place if we can just teach them properly and pray really hard.

December 6, 2008
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I just really find it hard to believe sometimes. The way these kids talk and act. I know it isnt all kids. But I know when I was a kid I always got toys for toys for tots. Now it is all about what you want.

It is scary. I mean to have kids growing up right now. I mean how would you deal with the sex issue. The fact that the media is portraying a certain body type. Sex is everywhere. What do you tell a kid?

I hardly watch it. I have been because of the bailout. But other then that I almost try to avoid it at all cost while still being informed. I just wish we could hear some good to.

Not all of this crap of child abuse and such.

December 6, 2008
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its good that the child abuse issue is getting some attention though. Im actually talking about something like that on the support side. It use to be that it was hush hush yes it is sad to see that its happening and I cant watch the news because of it but im glad its not the nations big secret anymore

December 6, 2008
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Yea I saw that. It is just I wish they would put stuff about kids making a difference too. What are we teaching our children? How many kids are watching the news and seeing this stuff. I know when I was in school I had to watch the news every night for school.

Have you read the book a child called it and the other ones in the sires? I am not trying to be, whats the word, a guess rude, with that question. I dont know your story and I dont mean to offend.

December 6, 2008
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That book would give me terrible flashbacks I dare not read it. They should have more about people making a diffrence child and adult alike.

December 6, 2008
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I could imagine. I am reading your other thread so leaving about you. I am sorry to bring it up.

I hate to reference it, but I wish some of Oprahs stories with the kids would be up. Or just genuine people. I dont watch it but if I catch it sometimes it is nice to see some positive.

There are good people. But all we hear about is the bad. Look at Anna Nicole and Heath Ledger. That was all the news had all the time. It is sad that, that is what people arewatching to make them continue. Or honestly, poor Britney.

December 6, 2008
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I know I feel so bad for her and the break down that she had. We do need a lit more positives on tv cause one thing positive on tv could have a wonderful effect on a persons day.

December 6, 2008
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I think she was just being a teen. We all mess up. It just the fact she was in the public eye that made it times a million. Same with her sister.

I can tell you all the bad things I have done. But the difference is, I dont have cameras in my face 24/7. If I did I might be so lucky (ha) to be on tabloids.

I guess all the crap that is on tv isnt helping either. All the different reality. What happened to the good shows? Ill go old school and say bewitched, I dream of jeanie, um classics.

December 6, 2008
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there a little before my time but I watched them on nick at night and loved them

December 6, 2008
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Oh it is before my time too. Believe me. Jut turned 22. But I rather watch that then the be paris hiltons new bff, or whatever.

Or an observation I have had before. I was in college at a university. The power went out. Kids were looting. It was sick. I was walking around with some girls and I was worried for their safety. I was ready to have to knock out some people. Apparently power goes out and the rules do too.

December 6, 2008
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ahh ok for the longest time I was the youngest on this site what happend LOL Im 25 now. I came here when I was 21 I think. It can be a scary place out there.

December 6, 2008
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LOL looks like I got you beat.

So the cutting. I am sorry to hear it is that hard that you feel you have to cut. I have been on the other end of a phone call with someone going to cut. I have never. But I get it maybe not all the way. But I feel for you. I know me saying it isnt good maybe wont make a difference.

Do you do it to put the pain somewhere else? If you dont mind me asking. I know this isnt the support side. Im not trying to upset you, believe me.

December 6, 2008
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I do it when I can no longer stuff my pain down. thats what I usually do is stuff it but sometimes it just gets unbearable

December 6, 2008
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I know you make to much to get help free, but maybe take the advice and try to volunteer. I can see howyou may think that is the best way. I dont know your full story, but from what I have seen I can somewhat understand. Please try and get some help. Dont be embarrassed about the cutting. People do it all the time. But please get some help.

December 6, 2008
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i will when things not so difficult around here it would just add more stress if I sought help now. My husband isn't the most sensitive guy so I sort of have to warm him up to the idea of me going to counseling and spend hours reassuring him that its not because of him

December 6, 2008
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It cant be about him. He needs to get over it. It is about you. You are the one that matters. He isnt the one holding a knife to whatever body part is your choice.

December 6, 2008
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he does not know nor wold I tell him he would just make me feel even worse about myself

December 6, 2008
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What kind of person would do that?

I am sorry. But that just isnt right. I guess from what I have learned if anything you just need a hug. Not just need. But you need the support. But that is just me. I am a sappy guy. I guess sappy is the word I am looking for.

December 6, 2008
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hugs are great. My husband is a self proclaimed asshole He loves me but he does not understand me and gets real mad when im depressed or i cry

December 6, 2008
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Ok I hate to ask it, but why are you with him if he is an asshole?

I mean maybe I am just use to me. I know what I do isnt how most are. But I have gotten waken up because someone needed to cry.

December 6, 2008
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I love him very much and he is a ton better than what he use to be. I guess my hopes are that he will become even better

December 6, 2008
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Hmm. I guess. I am not here to judge. I was just curious. But I guess just know that if your trying to change him just doesnt seem like it will end well. Unless he wants to change himself.

December 6, 2008
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he decided to change last time cause we came just a few hours away from him moving out. He use to be real bad and sometimes I see him slipping but sometimes it seems as hes getting better. But I dont think he will ever be able to offer me the kinda support I need so I just have to get that other places

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Ok that didnt quite sound right to me but you understand what I mean right

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