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September 24, 2010

This is my 1st time here. I got out of bed-couldn't sleep..searched co-dependency,and came here. Why now,all of a sudden? Divorced 4 years. Can't maintain friendships.Don't want to live like this rest of my life. worried about 20 something sons (especially younger one, having as hard a time finding himself as i did in MY 20's, and I worry that's MY legacy to him.) Tried therapy (counselor was ready to retire..ha! did I help her make up her mind?She'd done all she could do for me-I saw her patient mask slip, and there I am again, failed at attempts to please: not clever, engaging, SICK enough, I'm smart enough to fix myself, right? (uh, no:obviously not.) working retail, and season of hell rapidly approaching.Go back on antidepressants? hard to work up enthusiasm for much of anything. I know what I SHOULD do (exercise,etc,etc) but just no energy for that.I know so many others are worse off- feel guilty for whining!
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11:33 am

September 24, 2010

Tears in my eyes:thanks for replying. before I posted, I read what others were writing, and was so...reassured.I could see that (and I KNOW) others struggle, and I see possible progress, which is heartening. In isolation,of course,hard to have any perspective. I work in retail-"fast,fun and friendly!"--when work's over I'm in my car driving like a bat outta hell back to my sanctuary, and if I have a day off I'm SO relieved to be home! Go in, close door, greet faithful pets, and rarely venture out. Today is so nice, I'm gonna go for a 1/2 hr. bike ride-recently had my 30 yr. old bike overhauled:I MEAN to do better ,get some fresh air and exercise.--How does one locate a group for meetings?(just online, like i found this? Any hints or clues appreciated.) And thanks again.....
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