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5:26 am
November 4, 2011
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I really need your help, i am trying to work out if i have been sexually abused. i remember as a young child maybe 5 or 6 playing doctors with my friends two girls thay used to touch me down below. then i remember being about 9 or 10 and playing sex with a boy and girl i remember knowing whwere the penis went. i also remember wanting to play rape. when i was 14 i lost my virginity to a boy i yold him to stop but he wouldent, i remember thinking if i shouted out i would get told of for letting him do this. this then happened again and again. when i was 15 i got in a serious relationship and for a while i enjoyed sex. after about six months i always felt bad dirty after sex and often cried even if i had enjoyed it. one evening i was drunk i told my boyfriend i think my uncle sexually abused me although i have no concrete memories. when i read true life books about sexual abuse i can connect with the feelings of the people. but i think that maybe reading these books have put these ideas in my head. please help i am so confused.
1:32 am
February 9, 2011
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12345confused,
That seemed to be traumatic on your part and I think it might be best if you consult a counselor for your condition. Or a trauma therapist might also help you cope from any undesirable experiences you've had during your childhood years. It may not be as easy as 1-2-3 but that it's the only way to finally let go all the worries and guiltiness you feel all this time. Don't be afraid to get some help for it's your own good.
Wishing you well.
2:48 am
February 17, 2014
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Hi,
Being raped or abused is not the fault by you . Almost 40 to 60 percent of the kids especially girls come across similar kind of situations in their life even with more painful situations. But it's upto us how we gonna handle. Develop an determination towards the positive attidue in ignoring your past and shaping your future is required essentially.
We had gone through thousands of experiences in our life we dont remember everything . In this case it is hard to forget but it has to ..
You can follow these things for the change:
1.Learning any new language
2.Buying new pets to you
3.Getting into your passion like music, dancing if any
Incase if this situation continues for the long time , the side effects like losing interest in sex, losing interest in family life, losing self -confidence , losing career, slow down in financial position etc...may have chances to occur appear .
Due to the past expereinces , you had developed an interest towards thinking about the sex unknowingly .This can be solved very easily if you really intend to it.
You had not mentioned your age, your current status like student, employed etc.. By knowing the above details we can able to discuss deeply to solve the problem.Remember the SEX can be more joyful when it is experienced with the Complete love with your partner i.e may be with your lover or husband.
Discover & Enjoy every second in life 
2:48 am
February 17, 2014
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Hi,
Being raped or abused is not the fault by you . Almost 40 to 60 percent of the kids especially girls come across similar kind of situations in their life even with more painful situations. But it's upto us how we gonna handle. Develop an determination towards the positive attidue in ignoring your past and shaping your future is required essentially.
We had gone through thousands of experiences in our life we dont remember everything . In this case it is hard to forget but it has to ..
You can follow these things for the change:
1.Learning any new language
2.Buying new pets to you
3.Getting into your passion like music, dancing if any
Incase if this situation continues for the long time , the side effects like losing interest in sex, losing interest in family life, losing self -confidence , losing career, slow down in financial position etc...may have chances to occur appear .
Due to the past expereinces , you had developed an interest towards thinking about the sex unknowingly .This can be solved very easily if you really intend to it.
You had not mentioned your age, your current status like student, employed etc.. By knowing the above details we can able to discuss deeply to solve the problem.Remember the SEX can be more joyful when it is experienced with the Complete love with your partner i.e may be with your lover or husband.
Discover & Enjoy every second in life
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