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Trauma
January 26, 2012
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Trauma hurts.  It hurts when its happening, it hurts after its over and something or someone makes you remember the events again.  You think you are past it, and it hits you again.  It keeps you stuck and not able to carry on.  The hurt is so deep and intense that you cannot overcome it.  There is no event, no special day or a change in scenary that will make it go away.  Certain people will trigger it and you learn to push those people out of your life because with them in your life you cant even do the simple things that need doing everyday.  No matter how much hope you have that one day you will awake and that the grief of the past experiences will subside, it just seems to linger continually.  I went last week to see the new Tom Hanks movie and I know the title has Incredible and Extremely in it, but I keep forgetting how it actually is for a reason.  That movie hurt so much I wanted to jump into the screen and never ever return.  The young actor playing Mr. Hank's son did such an incredible job and the idea for that movie was so moving for me as a human being.  I hardly ever stopped crying throughout the entire movie.  It hurt that much.  All I want to do is to go and watch it as many times as I can and I don't even know why.  This is trauma.  It is not just severe depression.  It cannot be cured.  There are good days, but it never really leaves you.

February 17, 2014
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onedaythiswillpass said:

Trauma hurts.  It hurts when its happening, it hurts after its over and something or someone makes you remember the events again.  You think you are past it, and it hits you again.  It keeps you stuck and not able to carry on.  The hurt is so deep and intense that you cannot overcome it.  There is no event, no special day or a change in scenary that will make it go away.  Certain people will trigger it and you learn to push those people out of your life because with them in your life you cant even do the simple things that need doing everyday.  No matter how much hope you have that one day you will awake and that the grief of the past experiences will subside, it just seems to linger continually.  I went last week to see the new Tom Hanks movie and I know the title has Incredible and Extremely in it, but I keep forgetting how it actually is for a reason.  That movie hurt so much I wanted to jump into the screen and never ever return.  The young actor playing Mr. Hank's son did such an incredible job and the idea for that movie was so moving for me as a human being.  I hardly ever stopped crying throughout the entire movie.  It hurt that much.  All I want to do is to go and watch it as many times as I can and I don't even know why.  This is trauma.  It is not just severe depression.  It cannot be cured.  There are good days, but it never really leaves you.


Trauma can go away to a large degree.. if you are willing to work on it.   It is NOT hopeless.   Some tendencies towards tremendous drama are not healthy.    PTSD is not the end of the road.  You process the pain, the shame and the anger, and can untangle and diffuse much of the pain and scarring.   There IS hope.
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