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Traits....Do I possess these?
February 2, 2003
11:06 am
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Nice to share with you this morning ....and have a great day!

February 2, 2003
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You too! I think I'll make a trip over to Barnes and Noble this afternoon (:
I did read Codependent No More many years ago when it first came out. I need to get it again. I applied it to the situation I was in, but failed to apply it to myself as a whole, know what I mean? It's like I reconized in that situation what I was doing and enabling, but I didn't reconize that these were life traits, not just present situational traits.

February 3, 2003
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MJ,
I went and got "Self-Matters" and "Relationship Rescue". They are awesome! Thanks so much........

February 3, 2003
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Happy Healing 🙂

February 3, 2003
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Today I practiced asking for what I need...."Do you care about me?"
I need to feel cared about.

It backfired....
Why?

Was it because I attacked? Blaming...
You are focused on your self. Observation....Healthy boundary.

Still wondering why.....

February 3, 2003
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Mj,
I know why it backfired. The same reason why mine does right now. They aren't used to us being assertive and, they don't like it. They don't want us to change because that means we stop enabling and stop taking the crap and start being more vocal...it totally rocks their apple cart and makes them "VEWY VEWY uncomfowtable", as Tweety Bird would put it! (:

February 6, 2003
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MJ,
I started a new thread for myself in General topics called, Control is killing me.............

February 6, 2003
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Hi Tradewinds,
I am happy for you! I'll keep checking it out and talk to you there 🙂

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