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Tez and guest_guest and Site Coordinator please..from omw
April 14, 2009
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tree... and bevdee...

I'm starting to think you're both imposters from the past. How's that for paranoia?

I'm requesting that you both leave the site permanently. Don't come back. Go somewhere else. Please create your own place that follows your own beliefs and rules. Give me the address when you're done, and I'll stop by to see how it's going.

Please, both of you, once you're done shitting on me and this site, find someplace else to dump your shit. Or create a new nickname and come back as someone else... but go as you are.

Because you are both no longer "welcome here" in my home. I've had enough of this brilliant disrespecful bullshit from the both of you. Assuming my life? How dare you. How fucking brilliantly bold and honest of you to know that I'm a liar and a fraud. thanks. you're welcome.

April 14, 2009
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Oh stop it sc. The site is doing great and you're to be commended for that. "Children" develop a mind of their own, and move away as they grow, breathe, spread their wings. You've built an awesome thing. It almost lives and breathes. Now set it free. It WILL come back to you.

You're hurting it by not doing so. You're rousing the rebel rousers. Trying to control the teen during the tumultous times. It can be done, but that takes incredible tolerance, patience, understanding, self-control and deliberateness. Ya know?

Bevdee has been here a long time, has suffered enough shame in her lifetime, and you attemptimg to shame her pisses ME off!

The gloves need to come off. I'll take mine off if you do.

peace sc

peace

April 14, 2009
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I hate when people speak in riddles. My sister always speaks in riddles.

If ya'll got something to say can ya'll just say it?

This is one of the main reasons I can't read the threads on this side. Way too draining for those of us who have jobs and lives and shit.

Forgive my ignorance but could someone explain the conspiracy please? What is brilliant? What hit counts are?

Someone? Anyone?

Thank you

April 14, 2009
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tree,

This place doesn't live and breath, according to bevdee. I thought it did, so I leave it alone. And I'm condemned for not 'posting more' or bashing people for mistepping guidelines. I mean, that's my status quo? yes? I let it live & breath as a fighting machine according to bevdee. thanks bev. nice.

I love GG. I really do. Despite the shit he's said & done and heckling and unending bullheaded crap from him. I love that dude. I don't know who he is, but it hurts ME to ask him to leave. Almost to tears. He's family to me.

And according to bevdee, it's a lie and a fraud. and therefore, she really must go.

I've seen him post through the years. Typed a few emails to him over the years. Nothing special. But he is real to me. A real person. I didn't want to do this. I don't. But this 'living breathing place' needs me to.

And you tree, sound like someone who has been here before, left and come back. maybe bevdee too. She might have a couple aliases... but I sure don't!! when you see "site coordinator", it's me. just me. I have NEVER EVER posted as anyone else. And no one else has EVER EVER posted as me. that's the m-f truth.

Both of you. Leave this site. Neither of you are welcome here anymore.

I am a human being. I am not a computer, and I am strongly asking that you both exit the door.

April 14, 2009
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sorry lolli. 🙂

but I think the people that this is 'intended for' get it.

there's a couple trouble makers that are boiling to the surface here while I'm here booting off guest_guest... so here I am... being the good ole SC.

I hate it!

don't worry about it. if you don't know what's going on, it's ok. I wish I didn't. Wish I didn't stop up here to see this shit.

April 14, 2009
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I'm sorry everybody for being so 'public' like this.

I guess I'm all in on this one. Happens once every 3-4 years! And this is personal for me. Extremely PERSONAL. This place actually is part of my "real life", so hope you understand.

So, what I wanted to add, is that I posted the status quo stuff on the wrong thread. I was responding to what bevdee wrote on the "what is this site about" thread:

She wrote:

bevdee
13-Apr-09

Tbt,
Actually, I have thought the fighting that was allowed to go unchecked at this site was the status quo. I was surprised at and consider the decision the SC made today to be shaking things up.

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read what I have to say about 'status quo' if you're interested about 7 posts above here... and then I went on to rant and boot bevdee & tree. Which I do mean. I hope they leave.

April 14, 2009
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Ya know what sc?

I never said this place lives and breathes according to bevdee. It does so on it's own. You've created a marvelous thing.

Nobody is condemning you. Give the victim thing a break. Everybody here loves the site or they wouldn't be here.

Don't say you love guest and that he's family and then ban him. THAT SC, is bullshit. You got an ultimatum from Tez and succumbed to it. Ultimatums are manipulation ploys, you should know that.

Why can't bevdee just say what she wants? Why are you so afraid of her? Posters here can decide if they agree with her or not. She is harmless to you. People make their own decisions. What ya gonna do- ban everybody who vocalizes their questions regarding this site? That's encouraging not freedom of thinking. That's oppression.

This living breathing place didn't need you to ban guest. It needed to you let it live and breathe. cough cough joke choke

I sound ike somebody who's been here before? Now let's talk paranoia. Making accusations. Sad, sad, sad. In your own words SC. Sad, sad, sad.

Of course. Leave the site. yawn. SC's intentions get questions, heads roll. Doesn't the Taliban do that? Didn't Stalin? Hitler?

Let it go SC. The posters could have handled guest and Tez. The posters could have handled this. You're the one causing all the shit. And you make it look like "poor SC."

Well enough of poor SC.

Take the gloves off. It's silliness to be fighting anyway. For you to be involved in it is just unbelievable. You could have done it in e-mail.

But no. You do it here. For all to see. For all to be intimidated by. For all to be afraid of. For all to feel shame.

Well.....

THE SHAME IS ON YOU SC, and YOU should be the one apologizing.

Ya big enough to do that? ha.

now....

peace

April 14, 2009
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Dear SC,
You are human. You have feelings.
I hope that you know that this site is an amazing place. I am grateful for you the Creator. Years ago I offended you and you banned me. I have learned so much about myself because of your Allaboutcounseling website. I have lots more to learn too.

I just wanted you to know how your expression of emotion has taught me its ok to real. Love YOU

April 14, 2009
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I want you gone tree. You are not welcome here.

GO!

If YOU were big, you would someday realize the immense enormity of your misteps here.

Find the door, and go...

April 14, 2009
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Tree,

In my opinion, you're way off the mark.

Best of luck to you.

Mary

April 14, 2009
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Bevdee's not your enemy sc. And neither am I.

peace

April 14, 2009
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Tree & Bevdee,

Please, leave this site.

Please do not come here any longer.

You are both sincerely and officially asked to go!

NOW!

Say your goodbyes if you must, and take another DUMP on me, but then exit. If you want an apology, I'm giving it to you... I'm sorry, but you need to leave.

April 14, 2009
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so tree, please post and let us know who "you" are... what other aliases and nonsense have you pulled in the past?

April 14, 2009
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no.

April 14, 2009
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oops we cross posted. the "no" is to leaving right now.

As for who I am? SC, you're being paranoid.

I don't know what to say to that. How about who do you think I am? lol

I mean really

peace

April 14, 2009
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OK. that's what I thought. Probably twinks... I should do again what I did before, select all, delete.

If you're twinks, I've definitely uncovered a rotten egg.

April 14, 2009
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Tree,

You don't have a choice. This isn't your site.

Why would you stay where you're not wanted?

This isn't a game. If you were fired from a job, would you refuse to go as well? If someone asked you to leave their home, would you cross your arms and stay put?

Peace

April 14, 2009
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What's the matter mary? Ya think if you don't back SC you might get banned too?

No SC aka Heidi. I have as much right to be here as you do. And you know it.

Who the heck is Twinks?

peace

April 14, 2009
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What did Twinks do?

peace

April 14, 2009
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Tree, I think you're offensive. And that's all your doing. If the SC needed to ban me, I'd suck it up and go. I'm not here to play games or make trouble. You're acting like a bully and hiding behind the protection of anonymity to do so.

What's the "SC aka Heidi. I have as much right to be here as you do. And you know it."?

Mary

April 14, 2009
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Please accept my apologies mary. I don't wanna be seen as a bully.

peace

April 14, 2009
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Tree,

What's the "SC aka Heidi. I have as much right to be here as you do. And you know it."?

Mary

April 14, 2009
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Just because someone agrees with the SC doesn't mean they are sucking up or afraid.

April 14, 2009
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I agree Tiger.

peace

April 14, 2009
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Heidi is her name Mary. She's not the only "SC." Your "SC's" differ often but usually iron them out in private. Heidi chose to differ publicly and that is out of line. Problems with posters are supposed to be dealt with in email, privately, so as to avoid shaming people as was done to bevdee. THAT is WAY out of line. She could have asked bevdee to apologize through e-mail.

Typically, what would happen is that one would log on, not be able to do so, and have to contact the SC. Then the problem would be handled via e-mail.

Never publicly. THAT is shaming, and THAT is wrong. And Heidi knows that. At the moment she just doesn't care.

peace

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