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Sunny speaking out to workinonit,smiles, Iam, camer, cristine and anyone else!!
October 20, 2004
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Well, workin... men galore! Wish I had that problem! :o)

Anyway, he IS out of my life, just not out of my psyche. If you know what I mean. Just because he'll be working in my building doesn't change he's not in my life.

I just can't get over the fact that the asked Leslie, AFTER she sent him the poem I wrote and posted here... what she thought he should DO? DUH.... like he has any friggin' options. He has NO options. I don't want him in my life, end of option list. AND, I told her that it's hilarious that a 40 year old man who blamed it all on his family, finally admits he treated me like crap and then thinks he has an OPTION to be in my life... like I'll just swoon if he called! GIVE ME A DAMN BREAK! And, then he asks her what SHE thinks he should do.. always looking for someone else's approval before he makes any moves. GOD, how weak is that!

So, I'm ok today. I don't WANT him back, but I still care and I have to work through this and get to the other side... and when I do! WHOOO HOOOO what a life I'll have.

October 20, 2004
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Well Dawg.....I don't know why she would do that...Is she capable of taking care of your son? Is she jealous of the girlfriend? How old is he?

Sunny

October 20, 2004
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39yrs, if she went to counseling she would,,, but don't know if she can take care of him, and my 14yr old daughter. She doesn't know that I went back to my gf. But at this point that the paper work is in the works, Looks like i need to get my laywer involved now..

October 20, 2004
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Might be a good idea R....

I hope you are ok. Always thinking of you, keep us posted!!!

Hugs,
Sunny

October 20, 2004
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Somedays i get up and tremble and I've been like this for over a year..
Someday I'll stop.

October 20, 2004
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Dawg, has your ex ever considered taking meds?? since depression runs in the family...she too may be jealous cuz you do have a new gf...sometimes jealousy trigger good/bad emotions, trust me. Does your ex have a bf now or not??

October 20, 2004
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Hi everyone!

Glad to see some new faces here. 🙂

Alright Camer....here I aaaaaam, crawling out from under my covers to face you and Sunshine! lol Actually, I haven't felt well emotionally the last couple of days, just think some things are catching up to me, and some other things are brewing, trying to come to the surface. I'll try to post about that soon.

I know you have missed mocking me Camer, but you may continue on! Then again, from your posts it looks like you never really stopped mocking me! lol We will find out tonite, finally, WHO IS WHO'S DADDY! Ok Camer and Sunny? YA DAMN JINXES!! You know I was thinking about you two jinxes when my Tourettes kicked in as I was watching the game right??? grrrrrrrr...........

Hey Camer, I used to work for a newspaper distributer too a few years ago so I know what you're going through on these days at work! Big news days, long hours, everybody crazy, ugh Well cheer up, you only have to get through the world series and then maybe it'll calm down for a bit. 🙂

Sunshine, hope you're having a good day, sorry to hear Gizmo is still keeping you up at night. Bath and trim are good, usually Buddy sleeps a loooong time after that! How are you? I saw your other thread, still thinking about that b/c I just asked my hubby a similar question the other day!

Smiles! Hope you're having a great day at work, boss not driving you too crazy. Sorry I missed you last night. OH!! Good luck to you on that job you're interested in! That sounds great and I will say a prayer for you! Keep us posted on that ok? Also good that they'll keep your app on file for that apartment until you decide what you're gonna do. Are things at home still ok? I hope so!

Workin, uuuhh YEAAAH baseball again, til a champion (Yankees) is crowned! Hope you're doing well. So what's up with this Eric? "alleged extracuricular activities?" You mean there's a chance he's not using? hmm well you were agonizing last time about what to tell him about wanting space, etc., hopefully he continues to respect your wishes should you decide to see him again. 🙂

Cristine, ugh! So sorry to hear about how you've been feeling. I read your other thread, couldn't post there yet, what a freakin loser man! Nobody deserves that shit - who the hell does he think he is anyway? I'm happy to hear you're feeling better today and I KNOW you'll bounce back and be even better and stronger after you do get him out of your psyche.

Dawg, sorry to hear about your troubles too. I definitely agree with all that's been said here to you. It'd also probably help to have your attorney involved at this point to negotiate, hopefully keep the process running smooth and be a liason between you two regarding any custody issues, etc. Hang in there dawg, keep posting, the shakes sometimes take time but they do go away, trust me on that one.

Alright, back to work for me, until this evening....

YANKEES...YANKEES...YANKEES....

Still for the LIFE of me cannot figure out why Stank Sox fans enjoy prolonging the inevitable....y'all know it's just a matter of time before you lose, wouldn't you want to get it over with quicker? Don't make no kinda sense!!

Have a great rest of the day everyone,

lam

October 20, 2004
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Yeah Iam, I know and I will definitely stay on top of this but, because he didn't bother me and gave me the space...Well, I thought about him and realized it was nice to do so! I am not getting all weak in the knees or anything. No vapors for this Northern lady???

Besides, there is so-o much eye candy out there....lots of fun to be had and I still think I may need to stay celibant. Do you all think I can accomplish this???? HMMMMMMMM NOT

Well the batteries are still running so......oh BTW, speaking of batteries.....Smiles and Sunny I too remember our first time together really talking and man oh man was that a hot one!!!!

We are the shit ladies!!!!!!
sUNNY AND SMILES>.....

October 20, 2004
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LOLOL!!! Shit! I had it in my mind to bring that up workin when you said the ultimate NO NO word: celibate! Who ever heard of that word???????? LOL..I had my post all ready and then you said batteries! OMG, I'm cracking up here. I'll have to look up those older posts!

Hmmmmmmmm...uh, camer....Look who popped in! Shhhh...Don't tell her you picked me up at Logan yesterday and we drove to the ENEMIES playground, hee hee... Hello Iam! When you turn on the game tonight at precisely 8 PM your time, look for the camer and me. You can't miss us We have 2 big signs for you to look at. One of them says SKANK YANKS (Camer) and the other says HI IAM (Sunny) Also we have matching outfits and are covered in red paint. We will be sure to wave at you.......So wave back, while watching the game snuggled up in your warm blankey!!! GRINNING......

Hugs,

Sunny

October 20, 2004
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Hi all this is going to be quick I am walking out the door at work what a day. Anyhow I have parent teacher confrences at the middle school tonight so it might be later before I can come visit all my wonderful friends. I just read bits and pieces of the last post must say has my curiosity.

I saw celibate, batteries and old posts so this sounds really interesting he he. Of course my mind is a little naughty at times. But I am sure that;s not it.

((((((((HUGS)))))))))

Be back later

October 20, 2004
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Ok ((((((smiles))))))

Sunny

October 20, 2004
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BTW Iam....

Good to see you! Things brewing ey? Well, we are here for you whenever you feel the need! I'm doing fine thx for asking! Gizmo didn't get a bath today and I hear is still rowdy. Hope you are feeling better physically!

Love Ya ((((((GROUP))))))

BTW, I wrote this from Yankee stadium and the camer says hi!!!!

Sunny # 19 # 19 # 19!!!!!!!!!

October 20, 2004
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Running commentation live from Yankee Stadium.....

2-0!!!!!!

Brrrrr..A bit cool here. The camer and I just ate 2 hotdogs (way too expensive BTW) but we figured we should go ahead and start the celebration! Will ck in later!

ALL IN FUN LADIES!!

Sunnybunnysox

October 20, 2004
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Ummmmm..commentary?

Oops! It really is cold here....

October 20, 2004
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Another Oops! (yea I'm ok) Just excited....

# 18!!! My Man!!

I'll shut up about baseball now....

Sunny

October 20, 2004
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ALRIGHT!! ALRIGHT!! ALRIGHT!! ENOUGH with the....'commentation?' LOL!!!! (Couldn't resist sunshine!)

uuuuuuuuggggggghhhhhhhh NO I did NOT see you and Camer and your homemade cheesy signs gulping your hot dogs in celebration!!! aaaaaaaahhhhhh Sunny I can't believe you're torturing me under this pressure!!! LOL!! I'm going nuts over here!!! I've shredded my blankey with my bare hands, my tourette's is in FULL swing and the animals won't even stay in the room with me anymore. hehe

Oh and if you're gonna chant for your hairy 'man'....can ya chant the right number please?! 😀 Or was his HAIR blocking the huge number on his back?? LOL!! SAD, Sunny, SAD!!!

October 20, 2004
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its torture time!!!!!!!!Sunny quick, gimme a high five!!! woo hoo, sox rule and the Yanks are Skanks!!!!
Another big day tomorrow at the Newspaper Co for me!!!!!

Speaking of celibate, what was the longest any of you have been celibate b4??? me, it was 1 year and 7 months, yes...no sex for that long, the longest in my life!!! I guess when my fiance committed suicide, I needed time for me, and time for my healing with my coda, but I am back in action!! lol!!! how about you chickies or guys???

gotta run back to the Game!!!

will be back in a few!!1
love ya!

October 20, 2004
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Yeah I agree about this thread it takes me to dam long to load the other from home he he...

So how are my girls? I miss you all. Won't be on long been a long day. Had a good friend in ICU with heart problems, kids, husband, a boss being a jerk well that's putting it nice. Then trying to cordinate his birthday tomorrow. OH and parent teacher confrences with 8 diffrent teachers shit...

I wanted to share this with everyone I got a laugh well several out ot it.

My middle son the one who's birthday is tomorrow and I e-mail his teacher to stay in touch with what's going on. Anyway he e-mailed me and in the subject line he put :BIRTHDAY

And the following

Sherry I wanted to let you know that your son has invited his entire class over tomorrow night for his birthday. I hope you have plenty of Kool-Aid 😉

That just doesn't suprise me in the least. I find it funny actually. Just wishful thinking on his part but boy if I didn't know about it would they have all showed up? he he

Thought you might all enjoy that.. 😉

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Ohhh Camer the longest I have went is a year. I know that isn't long but that's my final answer he he.

You know what gets me is at work I feel there are 3 guys that find me attractive and yet I don't feel even a portion of that with hubby. He is lazy in that aspect. Has anyone ever gotten to the point in a relationship where they felt the sex (love making) was more work than it's worth? That's how I am starting to feel. Why bother. No passion and not much giving on his end just receiving. But that is just where I am today maybe diffrent tomorrow. Sometimes is it better to take care of yourself instead of feeling bitter and like your own needs don't matter? Just a question. I have a lot of questions about sex and haven't asked but feel comfortable about asking now.. Just a thought. Sorry to throw that question off..

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((((smiles))))

That was so precious!! makes me remember when my girls were little! sniffles...You sure are busy sweetie! Try to get a bit of a breather just for you ok?

Love and hugs!!

Sunny

October 20, 2004
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Hey gals... so how is the football going?

October 20, 2004
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**smiles*** sweetie, don't you hate the feeling where you think sex is work??? gosh, I have been there, a few times with my last bf (fiance) he was drinking, and I knew he was, and he denied it...and it was so hard to make love to him, not knowing if he was sober or not..my feelings were all messed up, I loved him, but I didn't, if that made sense, not sure if I had resentment towards him. Also with past bf's when things were not going good in the relationship, I would still have sex with them, but not really focus on it, I guess I was too scared to get out of the relationship, but still go thru with the sex and pretend it was good....even though deep down I was hurting myself, I kept alot hidden in my past.

Honey, if you have problems in the "love" dept, why not talk with your hubby?? and let him know how you feel, I feel opening up and communicating helps alot. Me and my last fiance did this, cuz he could tell things were different, but it was a rollercoaster relationship of
lies and promises unmet and good times and bad, too many mixed emotions. I am all over the board now....ok, smiles, why not tell him how you feel, that way he can tell you to what may or may not be bothering him.....and *smiles* what about the marriage counseling, Iknow you went once, how about going back, do you think it will help.

Its so true, "making love" with someone you love is soooo good, its so passionate, and we all deserve that, and not settle for less, alot of the "passion" has to come from
communicating your feelings.

***smiles**** know that you are always in my thoughts and prayers and maybe this is just a passing feeling you are having now.....

(((lotsa love and hugs)))) camer

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I plead the 5th LADIES!!! How about this? A true Southern lady never kisses and tells! ( think of Blanche on Golden Girls) Thats me!!!

Camer...Quick!!! Give me another hot dog before I go nuts!!!!

October 20, 2004
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Smart move Sunny.. he he

Camer I think what I am struggling with is without the passion and feeling he desires me It makes me wonder. This has been going on awhile but in spurts.

What bothers me is there are so many men that let me know they find me attractive and even sexy but they are not my husband. I worry about that because that is something I have sacraficed so long is one of these men going to catch me at the wrong moment? I want to feel desired sexuallly and that I am a turn on I feel that way with almost all men except hubby. I think he throws that part of how he feels aside because he likes everything more and it holds more weight. Yet I haven't been this sexually insecure in my life. I avoid the men that let me know that they are attracted to me. I know off top of my head of 4 now that I could sleep with but choose not to. How long is this desire within myself going to go on before I do something I will regret?

Well I am going to bed now. There was no dinner left after I got home so I made some mac and cheese and need to hit the hay.

I love you all just wondered if anyone else has felt this way and if so how they handled it..

Thanks for your support Camer I love you sooooo much.
And everyone here...

Camer and I have been able to share a lot of my sexual insecurities together.

And I don't know if my expectations are to high. I just wonder how all of you feel about this.

(((((((((SWEET DREAMS))))))))

I love you, don't let the bed bugs bite and if they do bite them back.

Okay one more question when I have a want and needd to be desired by my husband and I am not getting it over a long course of time how do I know when to decide this is important to me and that he isn't at fault for feeling the way he does but at the same time come to terms that I deserve to be with someone that feels that way about me beccause it is such a strong thing for me?

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Well ladies, I have to hit the sack. Your witty banter just plum tuckers me out! I can't hang with ya'll!

I'm still warshin' clothes, but the resta the work'll have to wait till the cock crows.... YAWN.... Night all!

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