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Sunny speaking out to workinonit,smiles, Iam, camer, cristine and anyone else!!
November 17, 2004
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OK All,

We really need to discuss some things going on not here but on support threads. I don't know about any of you, but I'm getting really upset about some things, and I'm sure some of you know what I'm talking about.
Camer? Cactus?

November 17, 2004
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Hi everyone! Anybody miss me? I missed you all!!!!

Life is such a fun experiernce sometimes. Very unpredictable and full of surprizes!!So just when I think I am over my recent ex, he shows up at a friends , I'm surprised and warm all over. Jeez, but at least I only realized I still love him and he still is not right for me. I must be growing!!!

The Eric thing is fizzling out naturally. Nice to see how this can happen. Usually I marry them!! LOL

I ran into a guy last week I haven't seen in awhile. He's getting divorced, mother just passed away and doesn't he come out this past Friday night to a place he knows I go all the time. Buys me drinks all night and generally thinks he's taking ownership! Arm around me.(I move away), kissed me goodnight ( I gave no #) I mean I like him but way too fast! I feel badly for him but I haver learned enough about codep that that is the last reason I want to spend time with him.

I think I'll just concentrate on school for awhile as I started my fifth class last week!! I may not be on as much as before but I'll pop in as often as I can.

Love you all and miss you so-o much.

((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))0

November 17, 2004
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Hey Sunny,
I'm lost? What are you referring to. Please advise.

-Cactus

November 17, 2004
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whoa, am I invisible!

November 17, 2004
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Yo workin!!!

Bout time ya showed up! You are never invisible! It sounds like you are or have been really making some good decisions for yourself! WTG!! See? You don't need a man. You have yourself, friends and right now that might just be enuff, know what I mean?
Congrats on starting a new class!!!

Hugs,

Sunny

November 17, 2004
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Thanks Sunny, That is sort of what I've been thinking. You know, what happens is they want all of us not just what we're willing to give!!

Did you read the thread about the guy finding out about his wifes past? I was so mad at that!! Who the hell do some men think they are? Gods or something? Maybe I still have some lingering anger?

Are you well sweetie?

November 17, 2004
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I hear ya!! Oh yes I did read it and passed right over..I can't understand that. Am I well? In the head I am, LOL! I missed my treatment this week and my blood count is low...Just in a weakened state... You sound great! I'm glad Eric is *fading*...

November 17, 2004
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Yeah, I am glad too. I think I am raising the bar on they type of man I would like to interact with but ....I guess I need a bit of down time. I don't want someone special for Christmas and New Years. I'd rather keep it real for myself. My God, I still love my husband for God's sake.

Plenty of time for adjustments.

When can you get another treatment?

Where are you living now? Had you moved last time I was on? It really feels like an eternity since I was on here!!

Did I tell you I went to Atlantic City with my son and his Significant Other? Great time!!!! Lost some but had a blast!! We're going again in April for my birthday!!! shhh(47)Damn but I don't look it!!!!!LMAO

You and I would make a good party pair Sunny. BTG of G.

November 17, 2004
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hi everyone.....I am so burned out from working long hours! and I am so broke already and haven't even started my shopping. I just need to get some good sleep tonite.

Sunny...I am trying to figure out your last comment, well a few comments ago about posting on this thread when it should be on the support threads.........Cactus, too was asking??? I this about when you were younger??? and please, sunny just start a thread on the support lines and you KNOW we will all post and be there for you.

Working!!! welcome back baby!!!school seems to be going good for you!! that's awesome.

And where the heck is Dawg??? havent seen him post in days.

Gotta run, will be back later!! ((love to all)))

November 17, 2004
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Workin,

I'm in OK now but keeping a place in Dallas too. I'm pretty sure I will have the poison again next week. LOL! Glad you had a great time in Atlantic City! I do love to gamble! Did you play the Royal Reels? Pretty good payoff here in OK. Well heck! I knew your age Shhhhh is right! I'm the oldest one here remember? Only by 3 months tho!!! Oh yes, you and I would definitely have a time on the town!
BTG of G indeed! ROFL! I think it's ok that you give yourself this time. It can't hurt to pamper yourself a bit now, right?????

Love Ya!

Sunny

November 17, 2004
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Camer and Cactus, Workin,

To answer your question? OK... I noticed a bit of negativity on a few threads (in support) concerning "cliques". and it really makes me feel uncomfortable. I don't know who is being referred to specifically and it is a known fact that everyone has always been welcome here. I feel bad that someone may feel they are excluded (well anyone for that matter) as we have never purposefully excluded anyone or ignored. That is not the intention here as you all well know. I feel like we come together, discuss our plans for the day, lean on each other, help and be there during crises, etc... Just wanted input on it if you care to share.

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Sunny

November 17, 2004
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Sunny!!! i felt the same way thats why I posted on this thread on Nov 16th....we all get along, and anyone can join in...not excluding anyone, and I think maybe cuz of the title and names listed people may feel "outsourced".....but what the heck, I join in on other threads that are directed to "other" people, its a self serve place, and anyone can join in. This thread is just a happy group of people, supporting eachother, and on a lighter note....and over the past few months everyone joining this thread has had the pleasure of getting to know each and everyone of eachother, its kinda nice. So come on in!! and join this thread. Just my thoughts........(((camer))))

November 17, 2004
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Camer,

My thoughts exactly..I mean, it's not like we never support anyone around here! There is absolutely no one who can in any capacity answer every single thread, but to be chastised, if you will, is quite frankly outrageous.... After all, we were moved here, and Iam did post what the rules are here..So WTF is the problem?

Jeezzzzzzzz...

Sunny

November 17, 2004
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Hello everyone!! Hiya Sunny and Camer, looks like you guys are on tonight! Good to *see* you both, I've missed you guys, all of you!

You know, I want to thank you, Sunny, for bringing this matter to the forefront. I have also noticed lately that there seems to be alot of negativity on the support threads concerning "cliques" and it's starting to make me uncomfortable too. I don't know who's being referred to specifically either but it's making me uncomfortable to think it may be this thread being referred to and the many individuals who post here.

It has always been clear - everyone is always welcome on threads that have specific names in them and we've never purposely left anyone out or ignored them. I feel bad that someone feels they're being ignored or excluded b/c that is never the intention here from anyone. Somtimes posts may be overlooked b/c, like Sunny said, it's impossible to respond to every single thread, but I don't think it's done maliciously at all.

There was also some ambiguity regarding what was an 'acceptable' way to title a thread when this thread and the previous ones were named. We have sinced inquired about it and were informed what the guidelines were. Yes this thread and another were moved over here and for more of a preventative measure since the word "click" was actually mentioned in a thread. I see that it has subsequently been discussed and I thought that was the end of that, that it was settled. Apparently not.

I have not seen anyone post here and have their existance not be acknowledged. Quite the opposite really, you guys made me feel so comfortable on that first thread that was going, I was hesitant about posting PERIOD and you guys were SO friendly and welcoming and encouraging. It's b/c of that first thread with all of you guys that I've stayed here with you all. And it's just awesome all the people joining in here over the months!

I wish this issue can be put to rest so that EVERYONE can be comfortable, ANYwhere, on ANY thread. I also think it should be encouraged that if anyone feels excluded or ignored or slighted or anything negative on a particular thread, that they speak up in a clear way, and feel free to speak their minds about issues that may be encountered here with individuals.

It's extremely difficult to understand where someone is coming from when it's put out there in more of a passive-aggressive way, to have to read between the lines to figure out the individual's message. I was never very good at riddles. How can issues be addressed or resolved, particularly the respect of someone's feelings, if it's not brought out openly? Isn't that referred to in one of the 'Guideline Tips' and the other information on this site regarding assertive communication? That if people don’t communicate their personal needs and dislikes in an assertive way, others won't understand what that someone else is trying to convey to us?

Sorry to be so long-winded on this but it disturbed me. This is such a happy, positive and supportive thread for alot of people and for anyone who'd like to participate, and I'd hate to see it so misunderstood and mischaracterized. But then again, it may not be this thread at all being referred to, I told ya I'm not any good at riddles.....

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November 17, 2004
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hey all...crazy day, so I'm just now getting online!

I've read today's posts, and I totally agree with you. I've seen the references to "cliques" and I can certainly assure you that this can't possibly refer to you all...I jumped into this thread one day and you all welcomed me, as you have other "newcomers". You all respond to whomever happens to jump in at the time. I'd take it all with a grain of salt. There have been plenty of times I've posted on other threads and no one responds to me at all..they just continue on as if my post didn't exist. No biggie. I just move on.

You all have always made me feel welcome, and never left me out. Thanks for being there.

BTW, my husband has been calling to talk to my kids...he has them on Tuesday nights and every other weekend. He keeps telling my son that his carpool is going to have to arrange to pick him up for school on Wednesday mornings - which is 15 miles out of their way! When my son told him that wouldn't work, my husband told him to just not come! I'm so mad I could scream. Why in the world is he having this discussion with my 14 year old anyway? He's supposed to have sent me his e-mail address 24 hrs. after our hearing the other day....it's been over 48 hours and I still don't have it. If I did, I'd have an earful - or eyeful - for him!

November 18, 2004
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Hi Iam and ready!!!

So great to see you two! You both make great points here. Iam...You know that this thread has been here on AAC for a long time. You joined (And we are still so grateful) soon after this thread started... It is great to hear your viewpoints... And they are exactly correct! We are not "mind readers" here, we ARE human too...Just like everyone else here at AAC. ready, I am happy that you felt welcomed here initially and not like you were in some kind of "Clique" with HS girls...I am also very grateful to see you every time you can join in. And yes! As Iam said...Hey..If you want to speak out. do so in a loud and clear voice! We will of course listen...After all, no one here is perfect, none of us either newbies or people who have been here for years. And that includes all posters on AAC.. It is so damn sad that this even has to be brought to attention, but then hey! We are after all on Libs right? I choked that one down, as well as many other things.. I figure if one has the right to bitch and carry on, so do I!!! Sorry if that pisses on anyone here that can't seem to get shit straight, for whatever reason...And I'm not speaking about anyone here on this thread....

ready... You mean they are not enforcing those rules yet? And I'm assuming that the kids were with their dad last night and he said that? Jeez!! I'm so sorry!! Can you do anything about it with the courts? I'm so sorry this happened..I'm trying to think of what you can do.....

Hugs (((ready)))

Sunny

November 18, 2004
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morning everyone!! yes, the "clique" thing needs to stop...I know of so many posts titled to certain names, and I just jump in and join in with support if i can help. And yes, no one should be offended, at least come into this thread and see and share what is going on.....this is all good, a good thread, and lets keep it that way.

Ready, wow, your hubby talking to your son the way he does...doesn't he
understand that this is his son, and
no carpool or anything should ever get in the way. geeeeeshhh, men, I don't know, sometimes they need to get there priorities straight.

Hey ((((Iam)))) glad to have you back on girl?? so how are things????

Sunny, my lil' bunny, hope you are doing well today, and Cactus hope youre doing ok today & all in your life....

Smiles.....I miss you girl!!!!

gotta run........(((((((love, hugs and peace to all))))))))))

November 18, 2004
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Good Morning All!
I enjoy reading your thread even if I have never responded. You guys keep workin your recoveries! I support your liveliness and friendships and I always wondered why this thread got moved back here?

November 18, 2004
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Morning Everyone!

mj, great to see you here! I trust you are doing well this morning? Did you see my question about the grocery business? Camer, I suppose you are hard at work right now, you too Iam. Don't work too hard today! ready, whats going on today? I hope you are feeling better after the incident with hubby! We do miss you smiles! Hoping you are doing OK! Workin, check in when you can..I know schoolwork will be keeping you busy. Cactus, Dawg and everyone, have a great day!!!

Hugs,

Sunny

November 18, 2004
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Hi everyone, just a quick check in from work. You know, when we put too much energy into what people say about others it bothers me. What difference does it really make what people think? We have all stated numerous times that any one is welcomed whenever. Look at ready, iam, dawg, upfront, mj and I am sure there are more.

We ARE friendly and welcoming and as dfar as I am concerned I don't believe they are talking about us.

We're a gang anyway!!!!!!!!
LMAO

Love you all for everything you are and everytrhing you are going to be and I mean ALL OF AAC

(((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))

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