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Sorry for asence, mossrose having hard time
August 8, 2002
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Im sorry, things r coming to a head for me. Im writing divorce papers now.

The emptional and financial abuse he hhas been sending my way this past week has been overwhelming..

August 9, 2002
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like any one cares..

August 9, 2002
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Mossrose,

I am so sorry to hear this. I didn't know that you were going through so much on a personal level at home. You are such a wonderful woman to share your thoughts and concerns here and to help so many, even with your own battles going on. It says so much about your character in life. I will pray for your stength. Don't slip away, let us know how you are doing.

August 9, 2002
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mossrose - it can help to talk about it. What's going on, what's happening? I care - was waiting for further input. 🙂

August 9, 2002
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Mossrose,

I can hear that you are suffering a hard time now - somehow it even comes through in your other posts.

You've made a great start - don't let the shit that your hubby is pulling get you down. Give yourself time, slow down a little bit and do things to collect, save and secure the progress that you made so far.

Don't let him hurt you - this is about him, not about you. He tries to make it about you - because he is a coward, propably. I think you took a very good and a daring decision. Post more on how you are doing, and just hang in there.

> hugs <

August 9, 2002
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Thanks guys i really needed these posts, thanks so much:)

Ya, im moving ahead hard and fast and i guess hes getting hard on me now. He is getting more controlling than ever now. I just want to be rid of him!
The worst part is i still feel as if i love him. Its tearing me apart.
What kind of love is this i feel????
I want him to sign those divorce papers but i also want him to say "babe, im sorry for all the pain ive caused us and i know how hard you have worked to make our marriage work. I will get myself into 12 step and support you guys until you get your own work/career and business back on the rd again."

Is that so much?

The guy told me on the phone yesterday. I now know, im not in denial, that im an alcoholic. I also know that ive been other things to you but i wont admit them to you caus eyou will just use them against me.
I said, come on, you owe it to me to admit your abuse and mistreatment.
He says "no, i dont"
I just decided i wanted a divorce yesterday and went to the store and got a do it yourself divorce kit.
I then phoned him and told him if he signed the divorce papers i would sign something hes been wanting me to sign ( not tooo big a deal )
He said fine, ill be there on fri and ill bring yoru alimony/support.

Well last night he said he wouldnt bring me ANY money ( i actually have twenty dollars ) and wouldnt sign the divorce papers.

I called him desperate this morning and asked him "Are you really not giving us any money?"
He said ok but you better sign my paper and is said as long as you sign MY divorce.

Hes holding my support hostage. I doubt he will sign anything.

ITs insane.

I am NOT going to a shelter either.

I will make money from a garage sale this weekend and my teenage son will lend me some i think. I will think start back my biz and get a consolidation loan if i can.
I will also need to finance my prop taxes which i can do now because i had HIS garnishee removed from MY account. EVeryones after HIS ass.

If i get a divorce isnt it less likely his shit will touch me ( financially ) and what are the imp things to include in my divorce papers?

Any advice?

August 9, 2002
2:52 pm
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Dont worry, i have it under control

August 9, 2002
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hey mossrose, just remember, it's ok even if you - don't - have it all under control. you've allowed the rest of us to be scared and questioning, you can allow the same for yourself too. glad you have some ideas for cash. the garage sale is a good idea for certain, it gets rid of old memories too.

August 9, 2002
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:)) i listened to maya angelou on oprah today, and she miraculously answered so many of my questions. I prayed for guidance, and it came through maya:))
god is good:)

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