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Site Coordinator, I'm letting you know... Isis
April 16, 2009
5:43 pm
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Dear Site Coordinator,

Taken from your own Guidelines and Tips:

"Guideline Tip: By respect, we mean, speak as you wish to be spoken to. Do you want to be Made fun of? Talked down to? Talked to in a mean tone? Then don't do it to others here. These are forms of aggressive communication. Passive aggressive communication is also frowned upon on these boards. If someone is doing this, please confront them. Be open, direct, and honest. Don't hide behind words or technicalities! Say it don't spray it!"

"Limit judging people"

"Problems here? Let the Site Coordinator know."

I'm letting you know.

I'm at a loss for words. I don't get it, and I don't understand why you wrote the things you did about Cookie, and Guest, and Bevdee, and Kroika, and free, etc. And I don't understand how you can sit by and watch others rip people apart and humiliate them and judge them.

What about the guidelines? Your very own guidelines? What's happened to you?

Respectfully, I remain,

Isis

April 16, 2009
6:03 pm
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Hi Isis, it's on my way here.

I just read your email, and I have a suggestion. Rather than post any more posts here to SC regarding this week's activities, I suggest that you email the SC directly from the home page section. I think this would be better as it will not invite any more discussions from EVERYONE on the subject. And, you can receive a reply from teh SC directly rather than engaging other AAC comments and posters.

At least, this is what I think would be best at this point in time.

Thanks,
omw

April 16, 2009
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Hi OMW,

I will do that as well.

I am blown away. I also thought it may be a reminder for all of us- the guidelines... you know?

I'm hurting; for myself, and for others.

I'm only looking for some healthy dialogue. No criticism, no shame, no humiliation.

Isis

April 16, 2009
7:57 pm
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Isis, you wrote: "I don't understand how you can sit by and watch others rip people apart and humiliate them and judge them. "

Remember this is not a moderated site. The SC does not normally monitor the content of threads.

I haven't seen what was said about Free and the others, but I did catch some of what happened with guest.

I didn't see the SC saying anything unreasonable there--the SC wasn't even making a harsh criticism of Guest--just observing that this site seemed to be feeding his negativity, rather than helping him resolve it.

April 16, 2009
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Then read on WD, you have some catching up to do.

April 16, 2009
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Hi Isis,

Could you maybe point me to the material that was so "offensive?"

April 17, 2009
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Hi WD,

I was able to correspond with SC via e-mail and all is on the way to being well again. So, with that in mind, how's about we let this thread die a dignified death?

Look forward to catching you in your skivvies over in the Embassy- real soon!

Sincerely,

Isis

April 19, 2009
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