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OVERCOME PLEASE READ THIS
December 20, 2005
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Overcome:

Hey, ive been reading thru some posts you responded to, whats up?
Are you haveing a bad day??
Please lets talk it out, today is not a day we can loose it, i need you and you need me..
lets talk..

I read into your post, i know why your upset, how can i help??

Lots of love kasie,

December 20, 2005
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And yes, i sense the anger from a few days ago..
dont let it build,
im not into crying today..

December 20, 2005
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I'm not angry at all. I am in a fine mood today. I don't think I posted anything negative....just a joke about the woman outsmarting the man..hehehe.

I feel pretty good today. Went out to watch the game with my brother last night, ate wings and drank a few beers....pretty good night. I got most of my shopping done.

Yes I am a little bit upset about not having my daughters for a holiday dinner, but I have never had them for a holiday dinner in over 3 years. My x's idea of sharing is giving them to me when it is convenient for her. Well, I have them 6 hours on both xmas eve and xmas and then both the 27th and 28th when I am off from work. So, its all good.

Next year I will have the courts set the holiday schedule fairly.

I know I am hard on people sometimes and a little bit of a smartazz....but my intentions are well and I do like to help people.

What's going on with you kasie? Having a better day?

December 20, 2005
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I wrote you on the other post we had, but i was worried about you.

Hell i am glad you went out last night, but ya coulda took me with!!

Just kiddin..

Im ok, finishing up the tree, wating for some calls,
you know its funny my mood swings from day to day, but im really having a hard time sleeping, im so tired but i cant sleep a full night..
did you ever have that?

December 20, 2005
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i was just thinking about your EX, she's cruel, what state?

I know where i was its you have one night she gets the other..

but im glad to hear your gonna change her rules..

i couldnt do that..

wow i really need to get some thick skin/huh?

December 20, 2005
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ok, I would have taken you out last night....but I need to know your take on the sex on the 1st date thread.....hehehehehe

December 20, 2005
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Ha !!

nice guy you are !!

Id have to leave that up to your own imagination.................

December 20, 2005
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Could we talk about our kids?
How old is your oldest?

My daughter is 20 and is putiing me through hell right now,

I thinki ive told you about her having a baby right after graduation,

well anyway, things have gotten alot worse and im a little distraught..
Im not likeing her attitude right now, and some things thats shes done have really biothered me..

but shes mad because i refuse to send her money and help her out..
she could have come, but she hates my husband, it goes much deeper than that, but, i was feeling ok until i got this phone call from her..

she can lay the guilt on as much as my husband..

i was feeling better.........
now im right back..

December 20, 2005
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My kids are 5, 8 & 14. I can relate, because my 14 year old and I butt heads.....really, really bad.

Don;t dwell on it. It will only bring you down. This is a festive week. Think of the positive!

December 20, 2005
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My son is 4 and dauhter 20..

It is true wont dwell, sorry..

Thank god this time around i have a boy, he is so much easier..

Girls are tough!!!

my husband has 2 22 and 24, they love me more than him, a little pissed i stayed with him actually, but, they are good to me, the oldest has 3 little ones and a boy due now..

whew i sure feel old...........

December 23, 2005
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Hi, kasie!

Hi, overcome!

You said, " I know I am hard on people sometimes and a little bit of a smartazz....but my intentions are well (sic) and I do like to help people."

I have noticed just a tad! LOL I mean, overcome, you cyber-grabbed mamacinnamon's a**!!!! Wow! That was "cheeky" of you (obnoxious pun intended!) LOL mamac, you shoulda, coulda, woulda!!

December 23, 2005
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Bonita:

LOL. I shoulda, coulda, woulda what? Do we want to go there? I think not; but could be interesting.

LOL. Girlfriend have a Merry Christmas.

Overcome: You have a Merry Christmas too. Oh, and watch whos a** you are grabbing thru the holiday. They may be an elf behind them w/ a big pair of sissors waiting to cut them off. lol
(kidding)

December 23, 2005
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mamac!! I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!

I meant that you shoulda, woulda, coulda cyber-bitch slapped overcome 'til he was overcome with a big dose of respect for ya'all lol!!!

No offense intended, overcome. Your cyber-ass grabbing just overcame my sense of humor!!!!

~~bonbon 😉

December 23, 2005
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OC,

You sound to me like you get everything that you deserve. No sympathy here.

No mention about your wife. I guess your children were just a dick extension. The family begins between husband and wife.

The disregard you hold for women is deplorable. Dispictable.

Have some regard for society and being "born" as a human, and not hatched like some animal that doesn't know any better.

I don't think you do. I think that you're a predator.

I think that you have no use for society. I pray that your children will not have any involvement with you.

December 23, 2005
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Mimi:

You are must definitely allowed your opinion, I am not minimizing that.

BUT.......

Take to heart that this is a site for love, help, support, and it is almost Christmas.

So, if you have nothing to say in love, or to help or support then please keep it to yourself. Folks just don't need to be bashed, specially not this close to Christmas when emotions run high anyway.

I am glad you are here, don't think we had met yet, so, Nice to meet you. Merry Christmas and I wish you love and joy thru the holiday.

December 23, 2005
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MC,

If you don't think I have anything to say "in love" as you say, than why don't you keep it to yourself?

Because judging someone isn't love.

So, don't tell me what to say or how to say it, and don't tell me what time to say it.

Get it???

December 23, 2005
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mimi, there wasn't any judgment in MammaC's post. There was, however, a whole lot of judgment in yours towards overcome. People in glass houses...

December 24, 2005
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mimi:

I havent had much in knowing your threads,but please dont throw accusations out there if your not reading the whole deal..
Overcome is very kind caring and considerate, like all of us here, we have moments of anger,dispare and alot of other feelings we may take out on others..

I wrote this post for a reason,personal between parties who knew what i was talking about, so please, sont get all up and armed about what has been said here.

Im not one to acuse, hold a grudge or even fight back , overcome has been delt a hard hand and is doing his best to live his life happy, men have a hard time dealing with stuff as well as women, this guy has a heart and has been very honest, yes maybe a little harsh to me, but thats between me and overcome, he is helping me in ways that are beneficail to me..

May you have the strength to recover and please find it in you to be understanding to all those who are on this site..

merry christmas and happy new year,
may God light a candle in your heart..

Kasie

December 24, 2005
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mimi!!!

You leave my mamac alone!!!! She is awesome and wise. I'm sure so many of us on this site have been helped by her words and appreciate her. I know I have. I appreciate you, mamac!!!!!!!

Mimi, were you having a bad day? Are you tired and cranky with all the holiday stress? I know it can become overwhelming if we don't take a break to EAT SOMETHING or SLEEP when we are tired.

Take a break. Have a cup 'o tea and a cookie. Things tend to look brighter when you are well rested and well fed.

Happy Holidays!

December 24, 2005
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I think people here are being too hard on mimi. She has a right to her opinion and she did use 'I' statements.

December 24, 2005
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mimi used a lot of you, you, you, when she posted to mamac...

We all have a right to our own opinions and if we choose to express them then they are not "judging." They are simply our opinions and should be expressed assertively, not rudely.

IMHO.

December 24, 2005
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"It is putting him down and name calling. I suggest you read the guidelines about limiting judging people and putting people down.

This site is about love and support and understandings as well as helping people with their issues."

These are great words, I love them. They should apply to all of us on this site.

December 24, 2005
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it sounds to me that mimi was feeling judged and prehaps misunderstood.

When she was adressing OC she used a lot 'I think', It sounds like"' statements.

I know she needs to speak for herself but I can relate to her feelings so I spoke up.

December 24, 2005
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yeh... but "dick extension" was pretty harsh...in my opinion...not in line with the guidelines...

perhaps that is what people here were responding to?? I was responding to the fact that she slapped at mamac pretty hard...In My Opinion...

anyway, Happy Holidays to you kathyg. May you have a peacefilled evening with those you love and who love you too.

~~bonita

December 24, 2005
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"You sound to me like you get everything that you deserve."

"I don't think you do. I think that you're a predator."

"I think that you have no use for society. I pray that your children will not have any involvement with you."

Kathy:

"you say "I think people here are being too hard on mimi. She has a right to her opinion and she did use 'I' statements."

"When she was adressing OC she used a lot 'I think', It sounds like"' statements. "

Kathy.... I put Mimi's own words at the top of this post. Then I put what you are saying. Where are the "i" statements? I see you, you, you,.... And what is not offensive w/ ""I think that you have no use for society. I pray that your children will not have any involvement with you."?????

Kathy that is nothing but offensive and down right hurtful. Prays his kids will not have any involvement w/ him? That is a blow from below the belt. Nothin but mean and spiteful.

Kathy you cannot honestly look at the tyraid Mimi had here and say that in all honesty. I know you like to take the opposite view of things but there is no opposite view to "prays his kids will not have any involvement w/ him".

I respect your opinion most of the time, but this time I have to strongly disagree. This is just plain hurtful.

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