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December 27, 2005
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I am officially leaving this site. It seems that there are issues I connot control and there is just too much turmoil here.

Anyway, for those that I have befriended, thank you.

For all the others that I "offended":
When I my time on earth comes to PASS. have
I hope they bury me upside down. So all my critics can kiss may ASS!!

Good by, Good luck, Good night!!!

December 27, 2005
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Overcome,

We are all struggling here and have our own issues. Overcome, when someone wise criticizes you, try to see what you can learn from it, rather than get angry!

I know when someone smart criticizes me, I take it with grain of salt and try to learn from it coz I want to improve.

So, do not take things too seriously and too personally. We all make mistakes, and the wise person learns from his mistakes.

We are all hurting here and I have been lately attacked in a thread which made me feel sad, esp because the purpose of my thread was a noble motive - to help my cyberfriends to protect themselves from potential dangers. We need ALL the love, support and encouragement we can to give one another.

I hope honey you will re-consider!

(((Hugs)))

December 27, 2005
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Overcome:

Gonna miss ya. Are you sure you cannot stay and work things out? I agree about all the chaos, but you did open up and let's work on that.

You decision of course.

Might even slightly miss the a** grabbin. NOT NOT NOT. 🙂 Wishing you the very, very best.

December 27, 2005
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Hey overcome,

You know, sometimes people say unwise or unkind things. And usually they decide they wish they hadn't. Things blow over. Don't let it upset you.

I don't have any major criticism of you, and I'm not sure anyone else here really has any major valid complaints either. If I'm mistaken, someone point me to the correct thread.

overcome: just let it be a tiff you got into. No need to let minor stuff make you go away hurt and angry.

December 27, 2005
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Overcome - I'm sure you have plenty to offer, and I'm also sure that you could learn something from the people here. We've all been "scolded" or been the instigator of some feud. We talk it through, make ammends, and more times than not, learn something from what has happened. Learning to communicate is a struggle, I know it has been for me, but you may find this to be a good place to practice communicating on many levels. The fact that it is a tough road, may mean that it could be very worth while. I hope you stay.

December 27, 2005
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Overcome, I hope you will reconsider, You have always been very kind to me. And very supportive. You have always been a friend to me. So i hope you are not serious. Please rethink this through.

December 27, 2005
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I'm new here, why haven't I had my a** grabbed yet by you overcome. I am feeling left out. So you can't leave yet.

December 28, 2005
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Dahling- I am truly slighted. I have been waiting all this time for a cyber-ass-grab from the one and only overcome- and now this. I respect your decision, however, I will truly miss your wise-ass banter. That's really all it is- brutally honest mince no words laced with sarcasm good advise. I accept you for who you are and will miss you. PLEASE don't go!

Isis

December 28, 2005
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Be an Overcomer?

December 28, 2005
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Lass - as I was scrolling down I was thinking the exact same thing............can't you stay and overcome?

You will continue to be welcomed.

Hope

December 28, 2005
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dont leave that will make me sad hugs chloeysmomma

December 28, 2005
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Overcome....weve never officially "met", but I do enjoy reading your posts. Sometimes maybe we all need some candid, blunt answers and opinions, even if we dont think so at the time.

I just think its a shame for anyone to feel they need to leave this place for any reason. I wont try to make you stay, cuz well, that would be me trying to "control" you, and as a coda, Im supposed to let people make their own decision. (my therapist would be soooo proud...lol).

Just know that you will be missed by many Im sure.

Snow

December 28, 2005
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Overcome, sorry you feel you must leave the site. I agree sometimes it can be overwhelming but yet it is a place to express ourselves. I happen to think that you did indeed give good advice. But there were some times I thought you were too abrasive and insensitive. I still say give it a shot again and hang in there with it. You may be surprised at what this can do for yourself and what you can do for others. I hope you come back again when you are ready.

December 28, 2005
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Dear oc...

What?!? You are a gem! I love your posts...I have one from you that I saved from a few months ago:

"The cream always rises to the top". I think of that almost every single day.

I am sorry to see you go, but you must do what is best for you.

With love and care...2b

December 28, 2005
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"For all the others that I "offended": When I my time on earth comes to PASS. have I hope they bury me upside down. So all my critics can kiss may ASS!! "

What kind of comment is this to make? Rather than taking personal responsibility or apoligizing for offending anyone he says 'kiss my ass'!

This is down right hostile and abusive.

I will be honest and say I am very relieved to hear that oc is leaving after all the abuse, judegments and name calling I got from oc. he made up negative judgemental things about me that were all untrue over and over again.

I wish I could find the thread. I think it was in the first thread he posted. no one said a word.

Having said all of this, I have heard one person after another say they were leaving just to reappear in no time.

So we may well hear from oc again.

December 28, 2005
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Sounds like a plea for attention. If he were really intent on leaving, he simply would have disappeared.

December 28, 2005
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ginger,

I agree with you. He went to a lot of trouble to announce his exit. In my experience, people who do so see attention.

Lt4Others

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