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Lonely and waiting
January 18, 2003
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I am a woman who is codependent on another woman. I love her very much but she has little time for me. It's great when we are together but that doesn't happen very often. I value her friendship and don't want to lose her. I am pretty much controlled in the friendship cause I'm not allowed to call or visit unless she says I can. She is closest to another friend of hers who doesn't like me. Our friendship is pretty much by e mail. I can't let go but am unhappy much of the time.

January 21, 2003
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Do you have any other friends that you enjoy spending time with? Do you date, or are you married or have a family?

January 22, 2003
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I think you have identified that this friend has not invested herself in the friendship as much as you have. That is the first step in evaluating what you want from the relationship. The next thing would be to determine how you want things to develop in the near future. Maybe you could start by figuring out what you want to invest in this friendship. Will you back off? Will you concentrate on other areas of your life? Which areas? Do you want to confront her?

Maybe by taking all the questions you currently have and writing them down you may be able to work through what is healthy for you in this situation.

Keep writing and we'll try to give you feed back and suggestions.

Enjoy the journey... Jenny

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