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Isis, any chance that you are around?
January 29, 2008
10:49 am
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I will check in off and on today to see if you are around. I would really like to chat with you for a few...nothing major...just missing you...LOTS....

How are YOU?? I know that you don't like to really answer that question :o) BUT...I would like to know the answer to that question.

I love you.....Michy

((((((((Isis)))))))))

January 29, 2008
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Just bumping this...in case you may be peeking in. I am not on here for a whole lot longer, but...I would love to chat with you for a minute.

I have group tonight...we'll see how that goes...but, I will check back when I can.

January 29, 2008
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Hi Michy,

I was peeking in and look what I found!

What's up cutie-pie?

Everything OK?

Sorry if I missed you- Tuesday's and Thursday's are my work days- I do twelve hour shifts and usually check in after 8pm my time.

I'll try to check back a bit later.

If I don't catch you tonight, I'll check in tomorrow after I'm done with school.

(((Michy)))

Love you,

Isis

January 29, 2008
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Hey girls, long time no see!!! I hope all is okay with you two.

(((Isis))) (((Mandy)))

gg

January 29, 2008
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Isis....I am around...you here? Are you gonna be for a few?? I will be so, I will check in....

Hey gg. Good to see you in these parts...missed ya.

Love you both....

Michy

(((((gg and Isis)))))

January 29, 2008
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((Mich))-- LOving you and thinking of you as always...

((Isis)) -- just want to say hello; hope all is well with you...

((GG))-- WELL, WELL WELL... If that ain't the LITTLE SHIT herself!!! Good to see you..... Have missed you TONS... but still stopped loving you.

NEED

January 29, 2008
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Need,

LOL....Lil Shit...that is funny. GG, you been missed....

I am assuming that you didn't stop loving gg...reread what you wrote to her...

HA...

Good to see you...how ya doing girl??

((((Need))))

January 29, 2008
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((GG))-- oops. I meant that I missed you tons.... but still have NOT stopped loving you while you were gone....

January 29, 2008
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That looks a little better Need...I had to giggle...

Hope you are doing alright....

I love and miss you...how are my boys??

January 29, 2008
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Exactly Mich-- that is why you are my sister, my angel...

I am doing alright.. Things are going a little more smoothly around here..

Work has been slow but then again there is always something there to keep me occupied.!! (to say the least).. Too bad the work crush is only that, a married work crush at that. This man is such a sweetheart. He shares his lunch with me often. One day it was raining so hard I had to go to the car and he gave me his umbrella... We met one day at the park. I just needed to talk to someone. It was bitter cold outside. I was not wearing my coat so he took off his and wrapped it around me. He said that I could take it home but I gave it back to him when I got back into my car...

How's things with you? How was your group tonight?

January 29, 2008
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Your nephews are doing alright. They are a little disappointed because their father is in the process of moving and is not going to take them for the weekend. They got to spend some time with him today. He said that he MIGHT get them a PlayStation3 once they are settled in.. But of course, that may not ever happen. I don't know why he continues to make promises... this happens all the time.

M is struggling a little bit because his father is moving into his mother's house who recently passed away. Lots of memories there. M is sensitive and I think it is beginning to bring back more memories for him. Poor thing. He is worried that he is only going to see his father twice for a few hours for the next few WEEKS. He said that he wishes that he could spend more time with him... I told him that he can always ask his father.. It just breaks my heart...

January 29, 2008
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Group was alright. I knew that the girls had been talking when I wasn't there about my situation. More or less judging me because Jay is still in the house...

Well, they don't know my situation...and they don't care. If I can't count on them for SUPPORT, what is the point of going.

Well, the leader asked me today how I was doing and what was going on. The one girl in my group that I can't stand...well, she asked me tonight...is he still in the house?? I said yes, and I don't want one more word said about it....

I don't know that it is the right place for me. I don't need another place to be judged...ya know?

Oh well...I am used to it ya know??

January 29, 2008
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Mich--

I just want you to know that I love and care about you a lot. We have been posting to each other for more than a year now... How things have changed... yet, we are still together as friends, as sisters... I want you to know that I appreciate having you in my life. You give me love, support, and strength... I love you... always will... You will NEVER lose me.. I promise you that..

January 29, 2008
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Mich---

Let me tell ya, I truly understand how you feel....

January 29, 2008
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Give M and J a hug from their Aunt Mandy...and tell them that she loves them very much....

It is so hard I imagine that he wants more time with his dad. I agree with you though....he needs to tell his dad that. He needs to be assertive and ask for what he wants. He can't expect his dad to know, and he can't depend on you to do that for him....

January 29, 2008
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Thank you Need...

Yes, it is hard to believe that it has been more than a year....but, I am thankful for ALL of the time that we have had. There has been a lot of growth for both of us. I am more than blessed to have you in my life.

I am thankful for the afghan that binds us....always. The five of us...well, it was special. And I will NEVER forget those days. I am thankful for the things that I learned about myself in that time. I am thankful for the love and compassion that I felt....

Thank you....all of my sisters. It means the world to me. You have each affected my life in such a unique and special way....

(((((((((((sisters)))))))))))

January 29, 2008
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Mich--

I will certainly give them a hug from ya and tell them how much you love them...

I have always tried to give those boys the skills of what I may have lacked... either growing up or even now...

I want them to be able to be assertive and to be able to communicate whether that is with me, PS, their father, his girlfriend, their peers or between them both...

It is an important...

Learning HOW to communicate is important. It is a skill that can be learned... and can work effectively..

It is something that I want to be able to improve with PS.. I am tired of miscommunication... ya know.?

January 29, 2008
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mich--

I agree with you about those afghan days and nights that the 5 of us spent together -- getting to know each other and healing our own pasts together.... It was truly amazing.

I do appreciate those times.. it was a defining time in my life -- a time when I did feel the love and compassion..

January 29, 2008
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I love the memories...well worth remembering.

Now ISIS....oh Isis...???

Hey Need, Does the boys father care about their feelings?? Does he consider what they feel?? Would M's feelings even matter?

January 29, 2008
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I am not so sure if he cares at all about their feelings.. Not too sure if he even cares about mine... not as a former spouse but out of respect as the mother of those boys.. the one day when he was off from work, M woke up not feeling well and unable to go to school. I had to go to work. pLus, their father was off from work. Well, he said that he was TOO BUSY to watch M for the day... Finally, when i said that I had to go to work and that I needed the money he gave in and said that he would watch him....

January 29, 2008
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That is sad in my opinion. I would hope that Jay would have respect for me...AND more for the kids.

I don't know...I am sure that we will be finding out soon enough....

January 29, 2008
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Mich--

Just know that i love and care about you.....

January 29, 2008
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Thanks Need...that is nice to hear...especially tonight....

Well, I think that it is safe to assume that Isis went night night.

Get some sleep doll. When do you have school?? I knew you were going, but I didn't know how your classes were....online, or in the classroom or what....

I am getting off of here and heading home in a few...it will take me about 15 minutes to get home, and I will check once more...

Otherwise I will just chat with you tomorrow....

I love you girl. You are a wonderful person...and I am thankful that you are a part of my life....

January 30, 2008
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Hey Isis...

Well due to the splendid weather conditions here in the great state of Michigan....my kids have no school, and my h has no work. So, I have therefore concealed myself in the bedroom, to stdudy for the most part. I like it in here...it is nice and quiet, and I could REALLY use the day to do some school work.

I will check in, and just see if you are around....I did think of a question for you yesterday that was making me giggle...

I hope that you are doing ok...

Love you....

January 30, 2008
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Hey there girls :o)

Just popping in to say hello. You guys are so sweet. I'm glad that you all found eachother when you needed eachother most. Whenever the sisterhood is brought up, I get these pictures in my mind of me, as the wicked step-sister! Funny how things turn out, eh?

Isis, where'd you run off to?

Hugs to you girls :o)

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