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April 17, 2009
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I have been reading whats gone down these past few days or so but really have nothing to do with anyone involved so have not said anything.

this post isnt actually about that but how did SC get all that info on someone? is it that easy just by someones nick to know where they live, what they do for a living etc etc....or did something transpire outside where that information was shared?

i thought this site was anonymous. if SC can so easily know my real name, where i live etc etc that make me very uneasy about posting here.

am i just being paranoid, stupid, nieve?

April 17, 2009
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Oh, and throughthefire...have you ever thought of teaching returning adults? Myself among them (I am going back in fall) are VERY hungry to learn most of the time...

April 17, 2009
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Oops -- wrong thread...

April 17, 2009
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Robbie, I would imagine that names are shared in the donation process...I reckon it'd be easy enough to google, etc. after that. I honestly don't think it's anything to worry about here. The private correspondence that was posted, if it is genuine, was written by someone who has been getting abused and attacked by the receipent for a week.

April 17, 2009
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robbie- I am curiouse What info did the SC get hold of? What R U refering to?

April 17, 2009
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destiny - i believe the post may have been deleted. all i know is that it was an email or something from SC to a poster and had the posters name, where she lived, what she did for a living, places she visits and names of people she knew.

i cant seem to find the post now.

April 17, 2009
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robbie- Oh. thanks for explaining it to me. I couldnt figure it out. When it got posted Tree did not state that this was an email that she recieved from the SC. I thought it was tree posting it.

Well, this site is anonymous. But we are responsible for keeping it that way. The emails can be anonymous or you can include you personal information.

This looked like a private email. But Tree copied it and posted it on the internet. Since Free used her own name and her X husbands name I guess she has the right to represent herself.

The only info the SC has is what we choose to give to her.

On occasion people do list their private email and meet people in cyberspace or elsewhere. It is against the guidelins though.

On larger internet sites people can send private messages with any type of personal information on it they want.

The information that people have about us is stuff that we choose to give out.

April 17, 2009
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Robbie, You were here at the site before I arrived. I think You can answer your own question. It bothers me that you are playing naive especially since you have had multiple nicks too.

Has anyone revealed your info?

April 17, 2009
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And gee, now we have that email reposted.

Thanks Robbie (whoever YOU are).

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April 17, 2009
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MJ i got permission to change my nick as i had exchanged emails with someone when we were allowed to and it turned out bad. i wanted to come back and try to keep some form of anynymoty so changed my necik NOT because i was banned or was playing games.

i am NOT playing nieve. I was really surprised by how much info the SC had and honestly didnt know how she was able to get it. she has no reason to get info on me but it is a concern that she could if she wanted to.

and btw - i did not ever deny who i had been previously when you called me out on it years ago. i had just hoped the person i was trying to disconnect from would not find out so i could stay anonymous. and that the ONLY reason I changed my nick.

dont really know why you have a grudge with me MJ. we never even talk.

April 17, 2009
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Sdesigns - i know - it was wrong of me to repost it. i even thought twice about but did it anyway. i do apologize for that. it looks as tho its been deleted now.

WHO am i? i'm just me. have NEVER caused any trouble here on this site. and thats the truth.

April 17, 2009
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(((ROBBIE)))
I'm not quite sure what MJ's problem is......I got accused of bein someone else.......or playin games.......I stood up for myself and MJ never came back to settle things and now I see MJ's post to you.......anywho....just thought you could use some support.....

April 17, 2009
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Robbie, I don't have a grudge against you. I am glad you are here working on yourself. What bothered me was that SC doesn't give permission to change our nicks. I figured out who you were under the new nick. I haven't shared that with anyone nor have I talked with you since.

What bothers me is that you know your anonymity is protected by SC and you started this thread. That's why I posted to you today because I felt you were casting more doubt on a already crazy situation.

We talked all the time initially. I struggle with people coming back with new nicks that I already have history with. That is my issue. My intuition says, this seems familiar again?

April 17, 2009
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Friendma, if you knew you were going to get burned again, would you freely walk back into a flaming match? I didn't feel like you really wanted to be open with me, Did YOU?

April 17, 2009
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You know what MJ.....I don't know anything about you and a flaming match.....the wrestle match I read about was humorous and I didn't read of any negative......you came on and it felt like you attacked and then when I stood up for myself and others supported that I was who I was....you never came back and owned up to your mistake.........You didn't approach me in anyway that would in my opinion encourage anyone to be open with you and what did you want me to be open about.....I answered your accusation and you disappeared......sure feels like you are holdin me accountable for something that I am not responsible for....

April 17, 2009
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Hi Friendma - thanks for the support. i honestly didnt start this thread to start trouble. i got concerned. thats all.

MJ well, i DID get permission to change my nick. it was for a valid reason.

i did think all this time that my anonymity was protected UNTIL i read that email today and it made me uneasy and i thought i would ask. Others here do seem to know more than me about getting info and IP's and whatnot.

im not here playing games or trying to conjure up trouble, i just wanted to know if this was truly an anonymous site or not.

April 17, 2009
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Is there something you are specifically wantin to know about me aside from assuming that I was doin somethin wrong?? Are you able to look back at how you approached me and see the problem??

April 17, 2009
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Robbie, I believe ya........and I understand your concern and from what you explained I understand why you changed your nick.......... :o)

April 17, 2009
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Thanks Friendma 🙂

April 17, 2009
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MJ, I don't know if you are goin to post back or not........I am Friendma and have always been Friendma and if you ran into any trouble in regards to the mudwrestling, I'm sorry ya did but I didn't do anything to you.....up until ya came on postin to at me with your guns drawn I don't believe you and I have ever had contact.......let me know if I have forgotten.........I hope only the best for all of those here........but I won't tolerate an attack and I know mistakes can be made but if we make a mistake we need to own it and take responsibility......that is what I am sayin..........I'll check back later and see if ya posted....

April 17, 2009
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I talked to Robbie privately in email a long while back. She's fine.

Robbie, maybe you can help educate people about why exchanging emails here is not a good idea? It can be dangerous, as is exchanging any pertinent identifying personal information. It's everyone's responsibility to remain anonymous here.

But yes, creating threads like this only makes my job harder... I would appreciate it if everyone could ignore the posts being made that "look suspicious", because they might be. There are some angry people on a mission here, willing to stop at nothing apparently... so instead, notify me in email. thanks.

April 17, 2009
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Correction, there is ONE ANGRY person on a mission here. Her well known name is "Free", and her well known recent nickname is "tree_hugs_4life", and now also created the nickname, "lalala" and posted on the COFFEEHOUSE thread.

I'm certain she'll be back around in the future lurking to hurt me and this website (ultimately, all of YOU), so please trust that if that happens, and I "out" a person named, "FREE" in the future, you'll know what I'm talking about.

April 17, 2009
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SC i do apologize. I guess i just panicked, ya know?

but yes, giving out emails here which can lead to more personal information can be very dangerous.

The person i thought was going to help me when we exchanged emails really messed me up. i finally was able to break away from that person but i still needed support here. but now this person knows way more about me than anyone. if i hadnt given out my email it all could had been avoided. changes to this site have been made throughout the years to protect us. and i do apologize for any doubt i may have had this morning.

April 17, 2009
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(((Robbie))))

April 17, 2009
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Robbie, I am sorry I reacted to this thread and you. My head has been spinning since Tez wrote the Farewell letter. I am sorry I didn't know that SC gave you permission and now she says she did.

Friendma, I knew I over-reacted to asking if you were really Friendma but was too afraid to go back and say I had been triggered. I knew that there was alot of posters that felt like had been here before and I flipped the switch when you hugged everyone who had participated. I re-felt all the shame that I felt that day so long ago. I suffer from PTSD.
I hope that you can forgive me for coming out with guns drawn. I do , do that. Thank you for trying once again to communicate with me. I am sorry that I attacked you. You are right that we have never communicated.

SC, Thanks for the information. I am going to try and stay calm and Breathe.

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