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I'll miss Bevdee
April 15, 2009
1:21 pm
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1clearcookie....
I asked a question. You didn't answer it so I can only assume who you are and steer clear of you.

Thanks lollipop3 for the hug! Congrats are in order! Wishing you much happiness!

April 15, 2009
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((((SpecialK)))))

To avoid any miscommunication....my post to MJ was also in regard to Cookie and the obvious baiting that she is doing.

There appears to be an abudance of bullies on this side these days.

Quite pathetic really.

April 15, 2009
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MJ, ask Lolli who I am..........

April 15, 2009
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Friendma wasn't involved with the donation drive. Why did you bring it up Friendma if you weren't even there?

April 15, 2009
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WTF, I brought it up cause I posted to many of those who participated......what is your problem??

April 15, 2009
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I don't know what the heck happened Bevdee, but I will miss you too. We didn't post a lot to each other, but I learned a lot from you and I loved reading your posts.

Just another day in paradise, eh?

Take Care.

Hep

April 15, 2009
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I apologize for crashin this thread...I have the utmost respect for Bev and I have started another thread to address the confusion......
((((((((((BEV))))))))))

April 15, 2009
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Thank you MJ for the Congrats! It's a very exciting time right now 🙂

April 15, 2009
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(((bevdee)))

I will miss the complexity, the insight, sensitivity, the Non-religious support comments, the willingness to dig deep and expose her depth, and help other to find thiers. I feel like i only got to know her while things were fracturing here and she wasn't as involved.

Obviously most on this thread have been here a long time, and I hold a deficit ( understanding the history)of experience on AAC.

I wish it would've been cleared up, in private, because regardless, banning bevdee will be a huge loss for all of us females who live outside the box!(kindred spirit) and everyone else of course!

April 15, 2009
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I will miss bevdee too. I asked her some very direct questions about her beliefs once and she answered willingly and truthfully. I am sad and sorry about all this.

April 15, 2009
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IDK what happened, I have just started coming back here myself, but I wanted to say Goodbye to Bev in case she reads this. You have been an inspiration over the years and I have truly enjoyed you and have been grateful for the time you put into this site. You will be greatly missed.

mamaC

April 15, 2009
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Well, I guess that I risk being deemed as 'kicking up some sand here...' when I go back on the donations threads and notice that Tez contributed on 5-23-2003....(as far back as this thread goes...) while bevdee, on the other hand, contributed on 1-2007, 5-2007, 7-2007, 8-2007 and the most recent glaring at us as of 4-2009.

(Though this does not take into consideration those 'anonymous' contributors.....whomever they might be....)

I just personally found this rather interesting that Bev is being the one banned here.....not to say that this is any kind of 'payola' of sorts going on here at all....just, to my mind, tells me who here....all along..... has/been truly appreciative of these threads and decided to express it in a monetary way.....and who hasn't....is all I'm saying.

(BUT - then again - like I said before, only the SC knows for sure where these anonymous contrbutions come from.....)

....that's all I'm saying........

The donations board over the years.....speaks for itself, I would reckon!!!!!!

April 15, 2009
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Bevdee always loved conspiracy theory. Her conspiracy theory about this site was harmless and probably over most people's heads. It got way blown out of proportion. IMHO

April 15, 2009
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You know, for me......what is going on here insomuch as a 'conspiracy' theory and the state of the affairs right now in the US is not altogether unrelated.

Know what they both lack?

A Clear Understanding.

Transparency!

Just go ahead and give us the heads up already.....we're not children - we can take it!

Don't try to hide any crap already!!!!!!

Please - when you do so - you just insult the intelligence of everyday people!!!!

See, when you or an organization (be it political or just this little forum) are not entirely transparent as to your intentions - however well regarded they maybe - to my mind, it can just naturally lend itself to wild thoughts of conspiracy in the absence of a clear and open agenda.

This should be nothing new.

We wonder.

You wonder, I wonder....all of us wonder.....about the safety and sanctity of just what most of us just pour our little hearts over here...to maybe think....in the back of our minds.....just who here (more than likely - the ones that just observe and never, EVER participate...HERE) are jotting down little notes and observations about our every move in some sort of psycholigical (spelling?) experiement where we - the unkonwing participants engage though no knowledge?

A real concern of mine for a long time, truth be told.

Could may well be unfounded.

If it is - great. If not, well - not so entirely great~!

Is this not the price we all pay (sort of speak) for expressing our most inner selves on such a http://www.public forum?

Anyway?

Think about it?

I guess - it is one thing to come to terms with this - since all of us post....but on the other hand - should we not know what MIGHT be happening?

What MIGHT be possible?????

Is this so much - really too much to ask?

You know?

That we just might....MIGHT be guinea pigs....in a way...all for the 'sake' of the secret scientists?

I dunno for sure.

Seems both acedemic and creepy to me all at the same time.........to consider.

I am reminded of the movie: "Patch Adams."

Why shouldn't be said patients be referred to as REAL FOLKS....aka - Ms Smith or Mr Jones....rather than the so and so....patient #1234 in room 111 with the gall bladder problem?

You know?

Who knows?

Kind of caustic, in a medically approved way....this whole ordeal.

One thing to try and gain some human distance as an MD....quite another to seem much too much mechanical and indifferent to it all., by the same token.

For - who was that person that went through the holocaust and lived to tell about it only to say..... that the opposite of love is not hate.....No. The opposite of love is indifference.......you know?

You know???????

In any event - I would sure to hell hope to hell nowadays - that the young interns/docs growing up today have enough just plain common sense and wherewithall to consider their patients first and formost as individuals and unique humans FIRST and foremost and their 'conditions' second while all the while 'booting out' the notion that patients ought to be seen from a blanket, clinical (sp?) 'distance' and safe standpoint rather than the real people that they are with individual and unique hopes and aspirations.....I would hope!!!!!!!!!!!!!

(Even if that means that from time to time 'they' have to actually break down and become human and non-clinical for just a moment in order to tap into this......)

In the end, it is worth it!

Keeps it real.

Keeps it humble.

.....All the way around, I think!

But even moreso......keeps it RESPECTFUL!!!!!!!!!!

(Sorry for the rant........)

tBt

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