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coincidence or more.......please help
December 12, 2005
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In the past 3 years, I have gotten divorced and my x put me through hell with my children...literally hell! My life really went to hell and back during that time.

Anyway, I survived andeach day get a little closer to rebuilding a little at a time. I am in a relationship that I have to admit I question from time to time. It can be turbulent at times and she has a "manic" personality at times. I told her I thought she needed medication to stabilize her moods. She agreed with me, but told me she does not have health insurance at the present time.

Well, since the beginning of last summer (when we had gotten back together after about a 3 month break), I been seeing 11:12 on any digital clock I look for. I will be in a meeting and look up and see that time. I will fall asleep and wake up at that exact time.

11/12 is my birthday and I have this overwhelming feeling that someone is trying to tell me something. Please believe that I am not crazy....at all.

But this has been a little weird and the feeling that it is attached to a message or a direction I should proceed is overwhelming.

Opinions, advice or other?

December 12, 2005
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has anything singificant happened today? any decisions that you have been faced with? Has anything else like this ever happened?

December 12, 2005
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I have found when I am looking for something or have something strongly on my mind I see it everywhere. Its like when a relationship ends I see 'his' car everywhere. Once I'm over the relationship I don't notice any cars in particular.

Once I lost a close friend and thought I saw her everywhere until I was over the loss.

I think you may have subconsiously wired yourself to look at the clock at taht exact time. I have found that I am very in touch with what time it is. I can tell myself to wakwe up at a certain without setting the alarm clock and sure enough I wake up at that exact time.

I think the question may be what does 11:12 mean to you?

December 12, 2005
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Overcome,

I don't have any answers for you... BUT, I will say that when I was young... I had a similar experience. For over a year... I would look at the clock always at 10:10, even wake up out of a sound sleep at that time. Not sure what it meant, but it did freak me out a bit!!

I'd be curious to see what others have to say about this...

TC

December 12, 2005
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Kathy, those remarks are so wise & insightful! Yes, me too! I notice so many things that remind me of my ex everywhere ... sigh.

Like you, Kathy - I too am v aware of time, and often wake in the night, or glance at the clock, at certain times in a set pattern.

I think it can be a subconscious 'displacement activity' - - - a way of coping with stress by diverting mental energy away from my real problems when they seem too big to face.

I agree with Kathy that the things we become consciously aware of are usually 'selective editing'.

My opinion is that this minor obsession could be an unconscious self-protective measure. Your mind can concentrate on it and be temporarily relieved from struggling with all the complicated feelings & worries surging underneath.

Be gentle with yourself, cut yourself some slack, and try to take each aspect of life at a time in bite-sized chunks. That way, you won't feel so overwhelmed. I hope you find peace of mind soon.

Blessings - gazelle.

December 12, 2005
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I must tell you that I feel something inside of me saying that this is more than coincidence. For some time now I have felt sort of lost....no real direction.

I guess I feel like this is not where I am supposed to be at this point and I need to get on the track that I am destined for. However, I am not sure what that track really is.

Somehow, I just know that there is a correlation with this time thing and where I am supposed to be in life at this time.

I am seriously sonsidering seeing a psychic. Something is telling me that is the direction I should pursue.

December 12, 2005
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Well, it is your decision. My point is that yes, it IS more than coincidence, but that any meaning comes from within YOU and has to be addressed by you. Only YOU can create your own meanings, your own future.

In asking a so-called 'psychic, you are abdicating responsibility. You are offloading your own birthright & responsibility for seeing meanings in your life FOR YOURSELF. This is YOUR life, and you can only have YOUR 'take' on things. No-one else can take your responsibilities for you. No-one else can think your thoughts, feel your feelings, admit your mistakes, decide to learn & grow, or live your life for you. We are majorly responsible for shaping our own inner worlds, IMHO.

Why can't you be your own 'psychic'? Though I do see that sometimes we need insights from others to help us see clearly ... and yes, we need inspiration & a nudge in some direction.

But only WE - each one of us - can decide whether it is our RIGHT direction! Best wishes, and blessings of strength, insight & inspiration towards new growth - gazelle.

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