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Broke my obsession without breaking my heart!
September 11, 2002
3:17 pm
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It has been awhile since I last posted here, so I will re-fill you all in. I was in a relationship of 2 years that was destroying my sanity.

He wasn't alcoholic, he wasn't a drug addict, he didn't hit me. The problem was me being completely obsessed with control and having constant reassurance from him. I was no longer in control of my life. I didn't think I could handle being alone because I didn't allow myself a life outside of him which frustrated both us. We ended up fighting for a long time.

I finally called it quits about 2 weeks ago and have not looked back. I am not in destructive habits, I am creating myself a new life and putting myself out there. And I like it!

I guess you never know what you can do unless you do it!

September 12, 2002
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That is so wonderful. I am in a similar situation but have not got up the courage to walk away yet. I am completely obsessed with spending every minute with him and I know that is frustrating to him. I know that it would be best to walk away before I drive him into hating me for me obsessing controlling behavior. But my fear of being without him is overwhelming. It is nice to know that there are people out there like you who can actually do what is best for them.

Keep up the good work.

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