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Need advise on what to do
October 29, 2012
5:46 pm
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So where do I start?

I have been married 20 years.

My wife has always had some issues but in the past 1.5 to 2 years it has become extreme.

Things have become extremely violent. The house wrecked several times. A knife thrown into my forehead. Deep scratches on my face and neck. One night My 2 kids have seen her wreck the house. She kept them awake half the night with her screaming and wrecking stuff.
She also takes every chance to talk down about me to them.

Just recently.. we were invited to go on a cruise with some other people. We discussed it and decided we could not go because we didn’t have the money plus Christmas is 2 months away. We had already been on 3 other weekend trips this year, not to mention we haven’t taken the kids on a trip all year.

So some how she convinced our friends to buy a ticket for her ($400) and she took money and went on the cruise.

She owns her own business but it hasn’t made any money in over 2 years.

She constantly blames me for everything. That I try to hurt her feelings. No matter what its my fault.

She constantly posts on facebook that I treat her so bad. I plead with her to stop and 2 counselors asked her to stop but it continues almost everyday.

One counselor told her not to come back because she wouldn’t let her help her.

My oldest said he doesn’t want to  live here anymore because all she does is yell at him and call her names.

She punishes my youngest sometimes by taking away his glasses.

She has been making up lies constantly.

She is taking Prozac and klonopin. Which doesn’t seem to be helping.

I don’t know what else to do anymore but leaving her.

Any suggestions would be great.

October 29, 2012
8:09 pm
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How long is she taking the drugs? what was her past condition that caused her to take Prozac and klonopin? was it prescriped by a professional doctor? You might need to have your wife checked up to know her real condition. The way I see it, she's really acting weird and her behavior is not normal so it's best to guide her to a counselor/therapist.


Before making a decision relating to your marriage, try to at least help and support your wife in resolving her issues. Maybe that's the only way you can save your marriage.


Hoping for the best and keep in touch.

March 19, 2014
1:02 am
Dr. Basim Elhabashy
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Resolving issues is the only solution in betterment of any kind of relationship so i think it is always advisable that just trying to adjust with the circumstances.

January 29, 2015
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i think so you can try to help your wife it is a very good think for you.

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