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Would really like your input on this matter!!
April 10, 2015
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Okay let me start by telling you a little about myself I met my wife about 2 years ago.... she had been divorced after a 22 yr marriage since 2009. I had never been married before so this is all new territory to me and i really didnt know what to expect as i am still learning things daily... I really do try to be a good husband...I trust and respect my wife with my whole heart and I love her very much! The issue iam having is her ex remarried and she didnt talk to him much before (maybe once or twice a week) about 8-10 months ago... now he is getting another divorce and he has a little boy... and i believe they talk on a daily basis.... maybe not on the phone but at least a text or two and when they do talk on the phone ...its not for 5 minutes its a 1/2 hr or more at the least... but they are friends and i do understand that... I have no bad feelings about him and i consider him a friend myself! I do not want to control her at all... now he is getting another divorce and its like she feels sorry for him.... this is a man that cheated on her for years ...every time he walked out the door she didnt know if he was going to commit adultery or not.. (Her words not mine) Now about the little boy she wants to help him decorate his little boys bedroom .... The question i have is am I wrong to feel uncomfortable about this.... ???? I have talked to her about it and explained to her that i thought it was a bit much...But then she just hid little things from me... i am trying to understand why she feels the need to do this and why they need to know so much about each others lives Like i said i dont want to control her in any way ... any input would be greatly appreciated.

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