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Wife wants to end marriage! She has changed !!
August 31, 2014
3:04 pm
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malopi5
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We have 5 kids ,shes 27 Iam 28,oldest childe is 13 youngest is 7.I will start by sayin that I knowe I havent been the best husband and or  father,she has been the best wife and mother, she was not a social person had no frinds dident want any never talked to any one ,dident  like go out or visit any one.I encurage her to make frinds get a job go to school to get out of the house and she always had a n excuss ,7 year have pased and we had to move ,I used this oportunity to get her to go to school ,she starts going to school and I see that she is exited to go and to meet and talk to pepole .I knew ther was going to be changes in her ,but never expected this just all of a suden starts beeing very disrispectful and cruel to our children and me and tells me to pack my stuff and leav that she dosent want to see me that I am a bad father , husband ,all kinds of insults and y asked her why whats going on and she tells me she is ssick of me that she dosent love me any more ,so asked  then why are you with me , she said because she has no place to go for her and the kids, just cus it was convinent for her and her only option at the moment.........DONT KNOW WAT TO DOO

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September 1, 2014
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When you say you have not been the best husband, could you possibly give more information?  I understand that you guys are super young to have five children & that your wife is obviously unhappy.  The only thing that you say has changed with her, is her new involvement outside of the house.  It could be that she never knew what it meant to actually have friends & maybe prior to meeting her she was an introvert.  It is sad if your encouragement to let her have some freedoms outside the home caused her to want to break up with you.  It is especially sad for the five children who might not be able to have a family with both a Mom & Dad living under the same roof.  Especially horrid for the five children.  I know you might not want to talk about it, but since I am only getting your side of the story it's hard to say what is essentially happening & whether you had a role to play in her new decisions. Please if you don't mind, could you explain about not being the best father either?  Sorry to pry, but without some more information and honesty, I can't advise anything at all.

 

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September 2, 2014
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A few days before, I heard this kind of problem which will happen to my friend's wife. Actually we don't why she behaves like with her family members, at last we are deciding to take her a counseling center. After a few counseling settings, now she is better.

 

 

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September 3, 2014
3:36 am
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When you say "now she is better" maybe you could explain what happened?  I am just very curious to read about her getting better.

 

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