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Unsure and confused
September 18, 2013
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Hi my name is will me and my wife have been married for about a year now and needless to say our marriage has been full of stress. We met while i was in the army she was from back in my home state since i wouldnt give any woman from around the post the time of day and she showed her love and caringnrss right away she drove 23 hours just to see me once i got back from deployment ( this was before we were married) and i knew then that she was the woman i wanted to spend the rest of my life with. Well we got married and the usual marriage stress was multiplied by my ptsd and other problems i had from returning from a hostile warzone. Like a angel she took it all with grace and patience till i stop taking my pills and was honorably discharged from the army. I admit i made a mistake i was without focus or drive anymore after i left the army and our marriage fell by the wayside it wasnt until she left for her mothers to realize how much of a fool i was and i knew i had some ground to make up and alot of things to fix in out marriage if we were to stay together. So i packed my things and left my past behind in missouri ( where i was stationed and living at the time) and took a ride to virginia where she was living with her mom. One problem ive always had with sam is that she had alot of guy friends. While it didnt bother me at first it got annoying when id see they were flirting with her and she would say nothing to stop them. But i decided to ignore it saying that as long as she always came home to me and loved me it didnt matter. Well since my mistakes in missouri i have changed alot to the point where im taking care of the house we are living in something i never did before but she deserves it since she did it for me. Well now again she has been getting texts from guys sometimes late at night to early in the morning and whenever i question who it is and why hes texting you she snaps at me. While i love my wife i just dont understand why im not enough for her to be talking to guys. She lost her wedding ring and everytime i bring up replacing it for a cheaper one until we get the money for the one she wants i also get snapped at saying she doesnt want a cheap one so shes walking around without a wedding ring and she gets hit on all the time. I dont know what to do i dont want to lose my wife but im tired of feeling like she had a bunch of guys just waiting for me to screw up again so they can take her from me. Any advice would be appreciated thank you.

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