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The Ultimatum
October 25, 2014
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Hi, my common law wife of 7 years has given me an ultimatum. Either I take down the magazine pic of a bikini-clad girl from my workshop wall at work, or she will leave me. I don't feel I have done anything wrong and I am amazed that she would leave over such a thing. I have been called a disgusting pervert by her, and she says that she feels she is sleeping with a sexual predator. I don't see how taking it down will change her opinion of me. I wanted to work on the relationship but this has kind of been my last straw, and I am wondering if I should even want to be with someone who would say such things about me?

October 25, 2014
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Sorry to hear.  Sounds like your common law wife needs to talk to someone professional.  You can make your own choice about a picture in your workspace that does not in any way & should not affect your relationship with your wife.  Hard to believe that there are no doubt trillions of other reasons why she would give you this retarded ultimatum, but hey I don't know much about your relationship.  Good Luck.

 

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October 26, 2014
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Sorry to hear.  Sounds like your common law wife needs to talk to someone professional.  You can make your own choice about a picture in your workspace that does not in any way & should not affect your relationship with your wife.  Hard to believe that there are no doubt trillions of other reasons why she would give you this retarded ultimatum, but hey I don't know much about your relationship.  Good Luck.

 

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Thanks, she seems to be attributing the ultimatum solely to the pic..... After being called these things, I was skeptical if taking it down would change her mind about me.... I asked her if taking it down would fix things..... She said yes,, I'm not buying it...., oh. And I have mentioned the professional help thing a couple of times already..... It certainly didn't help,,,, she says that I'm the one who needs it for putting the pic up. Go figure

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