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Saving my abusive relationship
August 23, 2011
7:49 pm
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angellost
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I know that everywhere you turn for support in trying to save a marriage that is abusive, the doors seem toslam in your face. I have been in my relationship for over a decade and we have an autistic son. I love my husband but I have just come to recognize that I have been in an abusive relationship both emotional and physical.I told my husband 4-5 yrs ago that I was not in love with him because after the physical abuse I didnt know how to feel about him and when it comes to the question of being "in love" I still dont know. He throws that inmy face every chance he getsbut he doesnt understand. he says he does but..I know I love him still-he has been my first and only love but the abuse has left me lost and confused. I feel like Ive lost a big part of myself but I want to try to keep my marriage together. I know he loves me. He grew up in an abusive home and has a horrible relationship with his mother but that doesnt excuse his abusive behavior towards me. I want to be able to feel secure and happy with him again like I did when we first fell in love. How do we start over, where can I find help to keep my marriage instead of running from it?

August 24, 2011
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Angellost,

 

I'm sorry that you have to be in that situation right now. Your husband is indeed having abusive behavior and treatment towards you and the only way you can get help is by consulting a marriage or family counselor. That way, you would know if the marriage is still worth keeping or you just have to let go from it because of the abusive environment you've been receiving from your husband. Also, I might suggest that your husband should be consulted first to a behavioral therapist or pshycologist in order for him to be treated and oriented of the way he behaves. I know that it would take a lot of courage for you to settle things between you and your husband but think of it as a trial or challenge in your relationship. A decade of memories and foundation that both of you built is something you cannot trade to any thing and might only cause regrets if not settled properly in the end.

 

Hoping for the best and keep us updated. Smile

October 4, 2012
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Physical abuse is like hell and I am feeling sorry that you are bearing this from last few years. You have to take few strong actions toward this like talk to your husband what he wants from this relationship. If he wants quit them no need to go for marriage counseling and if he want to continue with you then wedding counseling is the best alternative for it.

June 22, 2013
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June 25, 2013
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I just broke up with my girlfriend a couple months back. I really love her and want to get her back. Its been about 4 months since we broke up. We had a fight and she said she loved me a lot before the fight and after the fight she said she did not have the same feelings for me anymore. I need really help to get her back so i contacted a spell caster on the internet and i explain my problems to him and he cast a spell for me and guarantee me of three days that she will come back to me,to my surprise the third day she come back to me and now we are getting married.i just want to say thank you [email protected] for helping me to get my ex girlfriend back to me and i am totally grateful.just in case you also need help you can contact him on Email [email protected]

December 4, 2014
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 Am here to testify what this great spell  caster done for me. i never believe in spell casting, until when i was was tempted to try it. i and my husband have been having a lot of problem living together, he will always not make me happy because he have fallen in love with another lady outside our relationship, i tried my best to make sure that my husband leave this woman but the more i talk to him  the more he makes me fell sad, so my marriage is now leading to divorce because he no longer gives me attention. so with all this pain and agony, i decided to contact this spell caster to see if things can work out between me and my husband again. this spell caster who was a woman told me that my  husband is really under a great spell that he have been charm by some magic, so she told me that she was going to make all things normal back. she did the spell on my husband and after 5 days my husband changed completely he even apologize with the way he treated me that he was not him self, i really thank this woman her name is Dr Aluta she have bring back my husband back to me i want you all to contact her who are having any problem related to marriage issue and relationship problem she will solve it for you. her email is [email protected] she is a woman and she is great. wish you good time.

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