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Recently discovered wife lying and hiding things from me. How can I trust her?
June 17, 2015
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I recently discovered that my wife of two years had "extra curricular activities" going on behind my back. First, she got another cell phone and kept it hidden from me. When I discovered she had it, she claimed she needed it for her new job and that they were paying for it. Second, she told me that she had deleted her facebook account, but then I discovered that she blocked me, and changed her facebook name to her ex's last name. Both the discovering of the phone, and the creating of the secret facebook page were within days of each other. There were other strange behavioral things going on that caused me to be suspicious. So yesterday I was able to do some snooping get into her phone without her knowledge. I found that she lied about the phone (text messages to 16 year old daughter saying "you almost got me caught with the new phone"). I also found conversations between them, and other people, about this other guy and how cute he is and how she feels great around him, etc. I have not found any proof of physical infidelity, but the messages were emotionally descriptive, and it hurts nonetheless.
Getting to the point...I confronted her about these things and asked her to tell me the truth about what's going on. Well, no response until I confronted her with the evidence I have. The "excuses" she gave me were not very convincing and it was only after I pressed about it with evidence. She says she really wants to work on our marriage, and so do I. My dilemma is that I am having a very hard time believing that she is being truthful to me, and wondering what else she is hiding that I don't have "evidence of". I really love her and want to work things out, but can't get my mind off the "what else is going on" thing.

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