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August 28, 2016
10:30 am
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about a month ago my i found out my wife had been having an affair. not sex by her account but emotional. i am having the worst time dealing with this as i am honest and want that in return. she however does not think that honesty is the best policy she really believes that something said is worse then nothing at all. i have never been able to care for others until i met her and since i haven't been able to think of another partner i try to act like i do because she would never believe me. she still clings to past relationships and had rekindled an old flame behind my back. the anxiety that he is still her life is destroying us because she cant just say what happened she is still determined to keep her secrets. while making me out to be the bad guy to all of her walrus like friends. I'm not going to lie i went through her phone computers personal belongings because i have to know the truth about the whole event(s). I had even considered spy apps for her phone but i did not want to spend the money. now she knows everything i've done over this crap but still wont talk about why she did it. i need those answers to move on. before i lose my wife and step daughter i may just have to live with never knowing the reality of it all. any and all advice is welcome on this matter... i know my grammer sucks

August 28, 2016
11:44 pm
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I can understand your problem, you should go for couples counseling! Couples workshop provides opportunity for you to understand relationship differently. So you can improve your loving engagement, nagging issues, strengthen communication skills through private exercises with your partner.

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