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July 21, 2014
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Confused79
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Quick synopsis...met 05/2006, married 10/2007.  He adopted my daughter from previous relationship.  In hindsight, we probably shouldn't have married.  We are similar in some ways, yet so very different in others.  I'm to the point where I feel that he is my roommate.  We aren't intimate, we hardly spend any time together.  But, I am the main source of income for my family.  I feel that if I were to leave, it would put a financial strain on him.  But, at the end of the day, he's not the man that I want to grow old with.  And while he views my daughter as his own, they seem to constantly be at odds.  Help!

July 22, 2014
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Hey confused:  Sounds like a lot of trouble and heartache for you & your daughter.  I would feel a little trapped.  Seems like he needs to hold on to you so that he can survive & that seems a little unfair and unbalanced.  Were you always supporting him in every way?  Has he ever shared anything with you back?  It's o.k. to make a mistake & I know this was a big one because you got married rather quickly, but what happens now?  What do you want for your future & your daughter's future?

 

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