
6:52 am

July 21, 2014

Quick synopsis...met 05/2006, married 10/2007. He adopted my daughter from previous relationship. In hindsight, we probably shouldn't have married. We are similar in some ways, yet so very different in others. I'm to the point where I feel that he is my roommate. We aren't intimate, we hardly spend any time together. But, I am the main source of income for my family. I feel that if I were to leave, it would put a financial strain on him. But, at the end of the day, he's not the man that I want to grow old with. And while he views my daughter as his own, they seem to constantly be at odds. Help!
5:02 am

January 18, 2012

Hey confused: Sounds like a lot of trouble and heartache for you & your daughter. I would feel a little trapped. Seems like he needs to hold on to you so that he can survive & that seems a little unfair and unbalanced. Were you always supporting him in every way? Has he ever shared anything with you back? It's o.k. to make a mistake & I know this was a big one because you got married rather quickly, but what happens now? What do you want for your future & your daughter's future?
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