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My husband cheated with another man
August 5, 2015
12:18 pm
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My husband and I have been married for almost two years and I have found out that while he was away on business he answered an ad on Craislist and had another man come to his hotel room. We met in a swingers environment and both are very sexual beings. We have had a couple of threesomes with another man. My husband also spends quite a bit of time on sites looking for someone for us to play with. About six months ago I stated that I didn't like him doing that alone and would like to be included on that. He agreed. But continued to go on without me. Mostly talking to other guys about what they would do with me. But I really think my husband has an addiction and I am devastated and am not sure what to do. When I confronted him about the man in the hotel room he admitted to everything (I saw the text messages on his ipad when I was looking for his online chats). He also stated it happened another time. He said he didn't even think of it as cheating because it didn't involve me. He said he was just exploring and has decided that it's not for him. I feel completely cheated on and I am having a hard time with it all. It's been about1 1/2 months since I have found out. He claims that he will involve me I any of his future desires and wants but how can I trust him? He also cheated on his first wife. I almost feel foolish that I didn't think he would chest on me.

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