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Just don't know what to do
September 9, 2014
6:25 am
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mrsboneta2u
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My husband and I have been together for 5yrs and married for 2. Our relationship has been a non-stop rollercoaster. Course when we first started dating i was crazy about him. Seemed like we did more and couldnt keep our hands off each other. Then I got pregnant and was sooo excited to become a mother. I was hoping that my husband would (then fiance). He was so mean to me. He said that I would be on my own and that he doesnt want to raise another child. That he would fight me in court to make sure that I would never get child support. I made the mistake to give up the child to hold on to this guy. To this day that decision has killed me and i resint him so much for this. Fast forwarding to now. I look back and realize he has never been there for me when I really needed him the most. He wasnt there for me when my Uncle and Grandfather died. I would think a normal husband would want to be there for his wife during this diffcult time. Here comes more resint me on top of what I have already been trying to put behind me. I have noticed more and more as time has gone by that he is just so grumpy and moody all the time. He go this Mustang that he is trying to redue and its consuming him. He spends more time on the car then with his family. I have dropped hints to him and he thinks I am being mean and gets offensive. He hasnt seen his youngest son for 3wks and we are supposed to get him this weekend and he wants me to watch him while he and a friend work on his stupid car! I am so frustrated and just feel like I need to walk out. I dont feel that I am appreciated or loved the way I should and deserve to be.

 

I am really needing help!Cry

September 10, 2014
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I think you are not being respected & that your husband is not treating you with any kind of consideration.  I am terribly sorry that you felt you had to give up your child for him.  I hope you go and get some professional help for yourself to try & see what you can do for yourself.  If your husband does not want you to leave him, maybe he will try to get help as well.  Decisions in a relationship should be negotiated together.  It sounds like your husband is not giving you any right to say how you feel or help to make decisions that would be acceptable for both of you together.

 

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