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IF YOU HAVE BEEN IN MY SHOES, I COULD REALLY USE SOME ADVICE TY...
April 15, 2011
6:55 am
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I am posting from my phone so please be gentle with the spelling correction…. that said here's why I am here my GF of two years and I are expecting our 1st child in Oct we have had plans to have our wedding in June this year. things have been a lil tough here and there however Laughter and good times and our Love for one another has by far overshadowed any bad we have faced up till now. ….I. can't even write this with out tears over coming me (and anger). Well long story short a EXfriend, of my Wife to be, decided to inform me that the Love of my life had cheated on me twice ( same guy If that matters…?) At the time the EXfriend & my lady were BFF's & running buddies (for the "girls nite out" events…ect) the EXfriend told me enough details that when I approached my Lady (with all my heart I genuinely expected Jenn to inform me of how silly I was for ever enteraining the idea then Hug & Kiss me, leaving the topic TO NEVER BE SPOKE OF AGAIN) ……. however her reaction was imeadiatally her eyes flooded with tears she slowly lowered her head and didnt a word. = ( Sadly that spoke volums to me. She later the next day put my greatest fear into words addmitting to both acof Unfaithfullness. …if she had looked me in the eye and lied I would have believed every word w/out question, and never spoke of it again … she's not the cheating kind she's honest to a fault. The kind person who finds a $100.OO bill on the ground and will turn it in at the front of a store SHE IS …OR AT LEAST WAS THE KIND A WOMAN I wanted to Raise my children. I am at a loss for what I am to do from this point on…? Can I ever really trust her …. was her honesty evweough to grace her a 2nd chance …..? DOES THIS SICK FEELING IN MY STOMACH EVEER GO AWAY? For now she seems tainted/dirty to me so I can't be intimate …..that may never return to normal…who knows ANY WORDS OF ADVICE WOULD BE VERY HELPFUL THANKS EVERYONE

September 26, 2011
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I know this was a while back, but interested to know what your decisions were.  I wish you the best

October 4, 2012
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This will be quite difficult for me to suggest you anything because if I was your place then I will quite live with her but it is merely my feeling which came across in mind after reading your post. But you must take your decision from your heart instead of your mind.

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