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i need advices about my marriage.
December 19, 2015
10:40 pm
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I have been married for a year and a half. My husband is the one working and at the same time manages our money. I am full time momma. My problem with my husband managing the money is being broke and spending on things we dont need despite him bringing home at least USD 1300 a week. We dont have savings because he believes it will be best to invest it like buying things that appreciates its value but all he been buying were old junk cars needing work and repairs. I have been telling him that we need to save because we travel due to his job and we need savings for emergency cases. But as soon as we got some money save, it will start a fight because he had some things he wants to buy.
Before I got married to him, i have been always saving my money and built my mom a house. I never got broke but now that I am married I am poorer than a student. I have no cash on my wallet, I dont buy fancy clothes or jewelries. I am just an ordinary woman who loves to save. I just cant help but pity myself.

February 12, 2016
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March 15, 2016
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Do you have baby? If yes, then tell your husband that if urgently sometimes, he needs money, what he'll do at that time? We know that many times you would be asking your hubby to save but he is not. Just give him the priority of your child once, might be he can change. And if not, then that person needs the big surprise.
Take care.

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