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11:18 pm
June 11, 2011
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Hi,
i am undergoing a troubled phase of life that is i am separated from my husband for 4 months now and the decision that he has come up after
these 4 months is he thinks its better we get separated since we do not get along well. We have been married for more than 2 years now and we used to have fights since our nature was quite different.
The problem began when I started asking him more questions. He said that I sould not ask him irrelevant question like details about business, his friends etc. I used to ask him questions to initiate a conversation but he said there was no use since we ended up fighting.He is a reserved person.
He says that I did not give him space at all. If he went out to a party I wanted details regarding that party......that infuriated him...
After a period of 2 months without any communication, he has decided that we get divorced. This is really painful for me and I don't know what to do. Not even once did he call me and ask about my health.
He just said that I should forget him and that no one could replace me. I am growing weak in taking decisions and don't know what to do.Please advise.
7:30 am
February 9, 2011
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Hi dilpreet,
Welcome to AAC. It seems you're really having a hard time dealing with the situation right now. When was the last time you had a soft conversation with your husband?. You might need to consult a marriage counselor for that matter as that will help you and your husband talk things out first and decide whether to save or totally dissolve your marriage. Maybe things between you and him don't just work out fine especially if one of you had enough already. Or you might have a problem with your controlling behavior. Try to check if it's something needs to be worked on first. Maybe your husband felt suffocated with your relationship. You need to give him time and space to think. Men usually hate if there's too much questions raised to them. They easily get irritated and that's their nature.
Just go on with your life and find peace.
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