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I do not like my husbands friend because he disrespected me multiple times
July 2, 2014
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I am a newly wed (less then one year of marriage). About two years ago, during the engagement period, my husband started to hang around a newly made friend that he met in AA.  I welcomed the man into our home, but quickly started to feel uncomfortable with how open he was with my husband and I. I started to realize I did not like his personality and found him very unerving. Bounderies were crossed.  I tried to be understanding, but my instincts kept telling me to keep a distance. I expressed this feeling with my husband, but he forced me to try and be friends with him. Since then multiple things have transpired. He sent my husband many dirty texts and emails. For example "my girlfriend finds you funny and want to suck your dick" and "i wish i could just sleep with your wife". He had sex at my wedding with his girlfriend  and also wrote in our wedding card a very sexual message to my husband.  My husband went over there one night and his girlfriend started kissing another woman infront of my husband. Plus many other things. I have a lot of content.  I tried explaining to my husband that I am not comfortable with him in our lives. I do not want him in mine. He is trying to respect that, but he says he will still be friends with him and I am supposed to be understanding to that. I do not trust this indivual and have pleaded with my husband over the matter. I have even spoke to the man after he sent me e-mails asking why I did not like him. I told him why, but he consistently contacts my husband. My husband knows ALL my feelings on the matter and how I felt disrepected by the man and that I was not heard when I expressed my feelings. We have had mutltiple heated arguements. We are now in counseling for it. Its a slow process. I am willing to be patient, but feel like I am the one who is wrong after a session.  I have felt disrepected, went to my husband about it. He chose his friends side multiple times over mine and trust has been broken. My husband keeps saying he will be honest with me about the relationshhip but he enjoys his friend and connects with him on many levels and will not give up the friendship. I am a newly wed and I am stuck. Please help me. Even the mention of him gets me upset and feels like betrayl. 

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