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Husbands gives his all to his career and I(his wife) is second)
April 14, 2015
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I really need some guidance on how to handle my husband. I work from home and my husband commutes and hr ech way to work. We don't see or talk to each other for at least 12-14 hrs a day Mon-Friday. He is continuing to advance in his company which I think is great to a degree,but it does put a strain on me/ us. I feel hurt and resentful because I expect so much more out of him and he gives it all to his job. All the things I feel he should give into his marriage he gives it to his job.. When I express how I feel he becomes defensive and irrrational. All the stuff I have read says when wanting to discuss something to use"I" instead of you of "You",but when I do that he says I'm being selfish and its not all about me!  I feel he has no consideration for me and that is also why our kids don't have consideration for me. I can't excatly tell him a 100% how I feel because it would come off as attacking him and we would be off and running. Most of our problems now and in the past has never gotten resolved. I just eventually take it all in and  hope by my better ways it would rub off on him,or it would just fix it self some how. I need some good helpful advice!! Thank You!

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