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husband no longer loves me
February 16, 2015
8:13 pm
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A week ago my husband came to me and told me his feelings have changed and he no longer loves me although he still cares for me. 
A bit of background info about us. We are married 4 years and together for 8. We are both young me being 24 and him 26. 
We have an almost 2 year old daughter together and own a home together. 

We agreed to try and work on the relationship but after 1 day he had given up and said he felt no different. 
Talks of divorce, selling the house, split parenting have been thrown around and I cannot handle the situation as I am still 100% in love with him and had no idea this was even happening 
Yesterday I got very emotional and ended up calling a helpline who put me in touch with my gp to start counseling which to my suprise he actually came with us.
Afterwards it now feels like he is willing to give it a try although he is still very distant. 
Ive identified things that I do that may have pushed him away without realizing. 
I work 7 days a week ( part time so split shifts) which means we dont get alot of quality time together. - I have quit this last night and will only be working early mornings before hes awake.
I worry alot about bills and dont spend money on him and his needs ( but do on mine and my daughters) 
I dont show interest in his hobby and often stay home when im invited to go. 

I guess were I am going with this is that I need strategies and ideas of how to bring us back together outside of counseling. 
I dont want him to feel as if im pushing him but I definitely want to give it my best shot at bringing us back together.

I hope this is clear what im after?

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