Hi my name is Summer, my husband and i have been together for 10 years, and married for 7, in the last 4 years, he has become very controlling, It started out with, accusing me of sleeping around, talking to other men, then went to if  i spoke to a man he would get vey upset, now its all that and he has isolated me from family and friends, i cant go anywhere, without him knowing who im with, where im going, when will i be back, and i cant do anything alone, i have to have someone with me (he prefers it to be one of his family members), or he gets really upset.

He gets really upset if i do not answer his phone calls, then he assumed that i was with someone, And i cant take this any longer, he has pushed me so far away, that i dont love him anymore, im living a lie, he left me a couple of months ago, because i was talking to someone, i never slept with this guy, we became good friends, it gave me someone to talk to, cause i needed someone, and told him that he was making me feel like a prisoner in my own home, that i didnt love him, i was tired of it, so he left me, so about a month and a half later, i told him he could come back home, thought maybe that, that he might change, that he actually heard me that time, so all went well for two days, and  it started again, and it hasnt stopped, so now i have met someone else, i have fallen in love with him, and i may or may not be pregnant with his child, i know that if i am, that the baby will belong to my lover, because my husband cant have kids, i need to know what to do about the whole situation, im afriad of my husband, and his reaction when i tell him that i maybe pregnant, im losing my mind, im going to go crazy if i dont do something about my marriage....HELP