Europeans have a practical attitude toward marriage.  They consider marriage a partnership - it's about committment, friendship, companionship, family, combining of assets, etc.  They separate this from lust.  It is very common to have a mistress or a mister (if you are a wife) in ADDITION to staying married.

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