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Advice wanted
May 26, 2015
5:27 pm
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I have been married to my husband for three years. Ever since the beginning of our marriage it has been a struggle. Although i love him very much, i sometimes feel like i cant take it anymore. In our first year of marriage he lost his business and i became the main provider for our household financially. He eventually got another job which is low income, but helps a little financially, however he is constantly tired from this job, never helps on the house and he constantly complains about how much he hates his job. Now being the main contributor financially, i work my ass off during the day, even working now in my maternity leave so that we stay afloat (baby is 8 weeks), i cook, tend to the garden, tend to baby, fix stuff that gets broken, do grocery shopping and other chores. I feel grossely unappreciated, if i tell him i love him he just smiles but never say it back, he prefers to hold a pillow at night instead of me. Am i being selfish? I really want to talk to him about how i feel, but when i do he says i emotionally abuse him. A few weeks ago he wrote off our car which added even more financial stress to me. He says he is looking for other work, but i dont think he tries hard enough. I feel like he is a free loader and he is making me feel bad about myself as i have to always initiate sex. Am i over reacting or is this marriage heading on a rocky path and how do i save what is left?im tired of being the only one who makes compromises

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