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Zinnie- my progress
January 9, 2004
9:58 pm
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Hi Zinnie
I'm alright. How are you? I sort of feel like i'm in limbo today. Not sure of where i'm going. I miss my friend even though i know i will never repeat that mistake again i miss the conversation. I've shut my heart off towards him as i have to choice but somedays i miss his smile. Thank god my workplace cut the overtime which helps me distance my self from a bad situation. I'd like to start getting into some deeper discussions with my husband but it seems like such an effort. I'm going to tackle him into making another list. We talked about lists last weekend and i asked him to make a list of the things he doesn't like about me no matter how small of a thing it seems like i want to know everything. He said there is nothing he doesn't like about me. Jeeze, how can he not have even one complaint. Anway, I am going to start talking about deeper things tomorrow. Sometimes i don't even feel like bothering but other days i'm all for giving him a decent chance. Is it all me i wonder? I will keep you posted.

Thanks for caring. It means a lot to me to be able to come on this site and just talk and talk and get good advice.

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Blondee

January 10, 2004
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hi zinnnie. just wanted to let you know always thinking of you and hoping and praying for you, hope lisa doing ok, hope that you can see what a amazing special person woman you are to, (((((hugs))))

hi blondee hope things work out for you to, have a good weekend,

((((((HUGS all))))))

January 11, 2004
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Hi All,

Boland, I always feel your prayers and hugs all the way across "the pond!"

Ladeska, tell your friend, ask away and be pissy till she get's answers. My oncologist, is one of the best in the state of TX - or so I'm told. I drive him nuts because I will ask every question I need to ask until I get an answer. If I think I need to know more, I will research it myself, or I will go see my family Dr. who is awesome, and I WILL get an answer to my question. If they think I'm being pushy, well that's fine... it's my life I'm trying to hang on to.

Blondee - hey, you are trying and you are changing. You even sound happier in your posts. I can't remember, but are you and your husband also going to counseling?

Love to all,

Z.

January 11, 2004
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Hi Zinnie
No Z only I am going for counceling. We tried it once together and it was not good. Actually, i think the counselor we went to was the problem. She did things like right out of a book. Neither one of us took to her. I was going to tackle some of the emotional stuff with my husband this weekend but i just wasn't in the mood. He was suppose to make a list for me and didn't. He's such an airhead. If i remind him he'll say he forgot. That's how he is. He went for groceries and i called and asked him when he was in the store to get lemon juice and he came home without it. Now the Eagles are playing so forget it. Maybe next weekend. You know I usually start the ball rolling but he never kicks it back my way. Sorry, he's just on my nerves today.

February 4, 2004
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Hi Blondee,

Have not heard from you in a long time, just hoping you are doing O.K.

Here if you need to talk.

Z.

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