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October 19, 2006
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kirikiri
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just how is one expected to behave towards an ex--especially when he knows you still love him?
what would you do??

October 19, 2006
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Depends on how the relationship is now.

IF you parted friends then friendly only would be ok. Like acquaintences.

IF you parted on bad terms then cordial at best. Hi Bye Thank You. Try to refrain from Kiss my A**.

Is that what you are looking for??

October 20, 2006
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🙂
he thinks we are friends.i used to.but i think acquaintance is more appropriate.hi bye stuff.
great thanks

October 20, 2006
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Do you have kids together?

October 20, 2006
12:32 am
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I use tobe good friends with my ex, then things just happened. I liked when we communicated. We have kids together and its been downhill since

October 20, 2006
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I have kids with my ex-husband and unfortunately we cannot communicate.. but that was his choice... He is a very bitter man because although he ended our relationship by walking out the door he did not want a divorce and did not want to work on things either...

And so after a year of being separated I got a job,, He would watch the kids while I worked and there was no more "hanging out" ...

things did get better but it took me years to finally figure out that I could not be friends with him at all...
and interestingly enough he just moved into the same town as me with his girlfriend and her two kids who go to school with mine... and so i don't have a choice but to be see him

October 20, 2006
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I guess that your action will say it all toward your ex. I know that some people would say to not talk with him or to really hate him but I have had many of people and especially ex-boyfriend to hurt me. And I always knew that I would see them again later on in life and even though they hurted me in the past, I can truly say that they were very surprise on how I acted with them. Not nothing harsh but just being myself, the person that they always knew but really didn't take the time to get to know. They in turn was the one now hurt because I guess that they finally realize what they had and shouldn't have let go.
I'm not a person to hate, I may not like what you did to me but I also know that what goes around, comes around. I was the better person because I treated them with kindness and they was hurting badly because they didn't know how to take it. I don't know how many times I heard I'm sorry until I finally had to tell them OK, I heard it enough.
After talking with them and me saying my goodbyes, I was told to never look back but when I would start to walk away from them, I always stop, turn around and smile.
Even though my love for them was still there, god say to love and pray for them still.

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