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Yikes! I told his mother everything!
September 17, 2005
11:47 pm
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Just promise us that you will not be alone when they come visit the baby. Okay? We will be worried sick. 🙁

September 18, 2005
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I promise. For my own sanity, for my and my daughters protection, for the sheer fact that I will not be bullied or intimidated anymore I will absolutely under no circumstances be alone, even if i have to call the courthouse and have someone com eiwht me. I WON'T be alone.

The visit, by the way, is the 7th to 10th of Oct...I'm just getting my spazzing out now it looks like.

All I can find regarding my rights are the Indiana State suggested Guidelines, I wonder what else I can look into, any suggestions? The guidelines are vuege and assume that parents are non-hostile...I concider him very hostile passive agressively, and he made my life a living hell and I lost so much of myself at his hand, you better believe I'm hostile as F**K now! 🙂

Talked to best friend, which helped a lot. SHe's been through something very similar with her kids Grandmother, almost to a T...this guys and this lady could get married and make each others life a real horror show! But, she witnessed a lot of the abuse, was the one who tried to tell me about it for so long, and has been my best and biggest cheerleader now that I am moving foreward and trying to reclaim myself. It helped a lot, plus she had a lot of legal advice for later too...very refreshing.

Thanks all for your support, I think I'm gonna be fine, and return to my original thought proccess...I am going to be just fine, and I am glad I did this, for ME. The truth can be ignored, I don't care, the point is I put it out there and stood up for myself, refused to quiety take part in any more poor treatment.

September 18, 2005
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September 18, 2005
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EF- Wow, good for you!! I have a few people here who have the total wrong idea of ME also and I have been considering doing the same thing. I am so proud of you for standing up for yourself and making them aware of the truth. You're right, who cares what they think one way or the other, now at least you can sleep and breathe better knowing that the truth has been told. I hope you are feeling good about that! Congrats on standing up for yourself and your daughter. Just makes you that much stronger. Your ex is an ass and maybe now they will realize that (although they may already have known that) (((EF)))

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